It’s surprisingly hard to get right, but the version I always come back to sits somewhere in between. You’re not out all day, but you’re not inside the whole time either. There’s a balance to it that makes the day feel complete and slow without feeling overfilled. It also ends up being one of the easiest ways to make the most of where…

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But March? March just… sits there. Thirty-one days of weather that can’t decide what it wants to be, too cold to not wear layers, too warm to justify full winter cosiness. The holidays are a distant memory, the break feels impossibly far away. It’s the month that exists in the margins, the space between things that actually matter.

And honestly? That’s exactly why it needs your attention.

Because months that arrive with no built-in occasion are the ones you get to fill yourself. No one’s telling you how March should feel. There’s no cultural script, no mandatory celebrations, no collective mood you re supposed to match. It’s just a blank stretch of time, waiting to see if you’ll show up or let it slip by.

So, if you're looking for ways to fill the days ahead, here’s a list of ideas to make March feel a little more exciting!

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Week 1:

1. Take Yourself on a “Me Day”

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You know how you show up for other people? The effort, the curiosity, the willingness to try something new? Do that for yourself. There’s this creator on tiktok, Ally Wong, and I love her ‘Me Day’ vlogs, every week, she takes herself on a little date. So, pick an afternoon or evening and treat it like a date with someone you’re excited to get to know. Go to that gallery exhibition you’ve walked past, try the bakery that always has a queue. Sit at the counter, order the drink that looks good. The goal isn’t to prove you can be alone. It’s to remind yourself that your own company is actually top priority.

2. Go to a Bakery Before 8am

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There’s something about being out early enough to catch a bakery right when it opens. The lights are just coming on, the trays are full before the morning rush starts negotiating which croissant looks flakiest, and the smell hits you the second you walk in, warm, buttery, slightly sweet. It feels almost private, the staff are still setting up, the coffee machine is warming, the street outside hasn’t fully decided what kind of day it’s going to be yet. It’s honestly less about the pastry and more about the timing. There’s a particular satisfaction in knowing you’ve already done something indulgent for yourself before most people have even hit snooze.

3. Watch a Movie Filmed Somewhere You Want to Go/ Live

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Pick a film set in a place you’ve always wanted to visit. Not a documentary, not a travel show, an actual movie, with a story and characters etc. But one where the background keeps pulling your attention because that’s the place. Let yourself get slightly distracted by it. Movies are accidentally the best travel research because they’re not trying to sell you anything. Afterwards, fall down the rabbit hole. Look up the real locations. See what they actually look like versus how the film framed them. Find out if that cafe is real, if that view is accessible, if that street corner actually exists or if they built it on a soundstage and fooled you completely. Screenshot everything. Visualising can be the best way to manifest too? You’ve spent an evening somewhere else, and that somewhere else is now officially on your list.

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Week 2:

1. Go to a New Restaurant with Friends

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It’s the most trustworthy idea when you want to see your friends. Because it’s not about the food, but perhaps the adventure of trying a new potential go-to. That’s the whole magic of friendship in one simple plan. Pick somewhere none of you know and find out together.

2. Find a New Friday Morning Ritual

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Fridays before the weekend starts have a particular energy. Use it. Pick something small that makes Friday feel different from the other days. Stopping at that specific cafe for a pastry on your way to work, taking your coffee somewhere with a view before the day starts, a five-minute detour that has nothing to do with productivity. Something that marks the day as slightly special before anyone else has even noticed it’s Friday. Your new mini tradition for yourself, and just for March.

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3. Do a “Favourite Things” Swap With Friends

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Somewhere at the start of this month, pick a day where everyone brings one of their favourite things. A snack they can’t live without, a book they keep recommending, a song they need you to hear. Share them around: taste the snacks, smell the candles, play the songs, flip through the pages. I feel i’m so easily influenced by what my friends use, whether than be makeup, clothes, all sorts! I honestly love hearing my friends talk about the things they love. This can be a really sweet activity to see your group but also introduce something new in the new month.

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Week 3:

1. Buy a Single High-Quality Ingredient

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Real vanilla instead of essence, olive oil in a dark glass bottle, cultured butter that feels slightly overpriced, a wedge of aged cheese wrapped neatly in paper. Then build a meal around it. Not a dinner party, not a production, just bread with that butter, pasta with that olive oil, yogurt with that vanilla, crackers with that cheese. Keep everything else minimal so the one good thing can carry it. Truly choose small luxuries for this week! Have fun with the one thing you’d normally consider “too much.”

2. Make a Midnight Snack Plate

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When the day is officially over, the kitchen is quiet, and the rules about meals and timing stop applying. This is your excuse to lean into that. Pick a night this month where you’re up later than usual. Maybe you’re reading, maybe you’re watching something, maybe you’re doing nothing at all, wander into the kitchen and build yourself a snack plate. Something sweet: a few squares of chocolate, a spoonful of honey drizzled over something, a couple of biscuits you forgot existed. Something salty: a slice of good ham, those crackers you’ve been saving. Something fresh: an apple cut into weird shapes, a handful of cherry tomatoes, cucumber slices with salt. Put it on a plate that feels like an occasion. The nice one that lives at the back of the cupboard and arrange it like someone’s going to photograph it!

1. Laetitia Rouget - Purple ‘Just Chilling’ Oval Plate 2. Damson Madder - Chubby Saucer 3. Service Projects - Stainless Steel Trays

3. Go to a Performance Alone

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Another idea for one of the many March nights waiting to be filled. Go to play, a live music set, poetry reading etc., perhaps the point is to go to something designed to be watched in the dark, sitting shoulder-to-shoulder with strangers! You might find there’s a different quality to it when you go alone. You’re not leaning over to comment, not checking if someone else is bored, to adjusting your reaction to match theirs. A night in your own company, some experiences are meant to be private even when they’re shared.

Week 4:

1. End the Month with Something You’ve Been Saving

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That candle that’s too nice to burn, the chocolate you didn’t want to touch, the bottle of wine you’ve been waiting for an occasion to open. Here’s a secret: surviving March is the occasion. Go ahead. Light it, taste it, sip it. The good bath salts, the expensive tin of cookies, the thing you bought or were gifted that felt too special to use whenever. This is the moment to use it!

Here’s the thing about “special occasions”, they’re always ahead of us, and we’re constantly waiting for them. A birthday, a celebration, a dinner worth dressing for, a reason. But then those occasions come and go and somehow the candle still isn’t lit, the chocolate remains unopened, the bottle keeps getting saved for the next one. Let the month go out with a small celebration of itself. Of you making it through, little moments that added up, and the fact that you bothered to do any of the things on this list at all!!!

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2. Plan Something Small for April

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Take a moment to add one thing to your April calendar that actually excites you. Maybe it’s a dinner with someone you’ve been meaning to see, a reservation at a spot you’ve been curious about, or an afternoon set aside for nothing at all. As the season changes, let it be a chance to think about what the next few months could feel like. Instead of mapping out the whole year, focus on this season. Collect images, notes, recipes, outfits, or tiny rituals that spark curiosity or joy. Maybe you want slower nights and gentle routines, or maybe a few spontaneous adventures. The goal isn’t to plan everything perfectly, but to leave a small trail of inspiration ahead, something to look forward to, something to guide the tone of your coming weeks.

3. Close Out with a No-Phone Night

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Pick an evening, maybe the last Sunday of March, maybe the 31st itself, maybe whatever night feels right and commit to keeping your phone in another room. Out of sight. March has been a month of doing things, little adventures, small moments, things to make it feel like it actually happened. This is the flip side of that. A night of doing nothing, deliberately, fully, without the usual distraction loop running in the background. A night uninterrupted, unshared, un-scrolled. That’s the way to end a month.

March doesn’t arrive with the pressure of January or the promise of June. It just shows up, thirty-one days long, and waits to see if you’ll do anything with it. Most years, we don’t. We let it pass through, get to April, and realise we can’t name a single thing that happened.

This list is here to help add a little structure, but not too much. Enough to make sure you’re seeing friends, stepping into new spaces, and filling your time with small, memorable moments. So, here’s to a March that doesn’t blend into the months before it. The kind that make a month feel lived-in rather than just passed through.

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

Being “booked” isn’t about having a calendar full of social obligations. It’s about having your time and energy booked by you, for your own purposes, even if that purpose is rest. Being “unbothered” isn’t about not caring or detached. It’s the result of meeting your own needs, of giving your body and mind what they crave before the world can make its demands feel like weights.

This Wednesday, you choose one item from the menu. See how it feels to transform a blind spot into a little laboratory for your own well-being.

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March is coming, a month with that in-between energy. The rush of the new year has slowed, but there’s still a sense of wanting something new: a trip somewhere warm, a moment where everything feels a little elevated, a next level experience that captures the calm indulgence of a holiday pause.

As those feelings settle in, there’s a chance to play. To lean into them, to create a little indulgence that usually only exists on holiday or in magazines. Why not bring it home? A morning that feels like a getaway. An afternoon drink that feels like a hotel bar. A walk that could be straight out of a European summer.

Why not take the ordinary and make it feel staged, luxurious, as if someone else planned it for you, a five-star resort itinerary, carefully sequenced, just for your daily routines. A way to feed those daydreams and make the everyday feel… next level.

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The Five-Star Morning at Home

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Let’s start basic and easy. A morning can feel like a holiday if it’s treated like one. Wake up a little earlier than usual, not because there’s more to do, but to give yourself space to do nothing in particular. Shower first. Put on a robe, ideally one reserved just for mornings. Make your coffee slowly, sit somewhere that isn’t your bed, and leave your phone out of reach. It’s not about the drink or the routine itself. It’s about behaving like you’re somewhere designed for you, where the sequence of small gestures makes the ordinary feel curated, elevated, and just a little luxurious. Freeze lemon slices in ice cubes to drop into hot water each morning, try heart-shaped moulds, or infuse fruit or flowers in ice little details that exist solely to make your mornings feel deliberate. By the time the morning ends, it’s no longer just the start of a day, it’s a moment worth lingering in.

The Resort Yoga Illusion

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Next level experiences sometimes is all about how you feel. When upgrading/ elevating a daily routine, you don’t have to do anything new or impressive. Maybe just changing how you want to feel. To feel like you’re doing yoga with a clear blue ocean view, smelling the fresh salty air. Open all your windows, roll out your mat toward the largest window, face outward, wear a matching set, crisp or soft, something that feels intentional because I know we all like to plan out every single outfit when on holiday. Make an ocean view your laptop background screen, play a soundtrack of soft waves. It may be slightly delusional, but that’s the point. By choosing how you want the moment to feel, the ordinary stretches. The room feels bigger, the light warmer, the pause longer. Giving yourself a taste of the way life can feel when the small details are just so.

European Summer Errand Run

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You know that feeling of wandering through a market just to pick up fruit and veg in summer. Whether it’s your local market or somewhere in Italy, the sun hitting, the slow pace of people moving as if they have nowhere else to be. You don’t need a plane ticket to get close to it. It’s getting warmer, wear linen, even if you have to throw a huge coat on top. Bring a tote, walk instead of drive, buy only what you can carry. The task hasn’t changed, it’s the way it’s framed. A simple errand can become a little escape. The sun feels warmer, the air lighter, your movements carry a sense of ease usually reserved for holidays. A walk to the market can feel like a European summer street, even if your city is just as busy as ever. It’s indulgent, playful, and entirely about choosing how it feels while doing something familiar.

The “Spa Day in Bali” Reset

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That just stepped out of the shower, humid spa in the middle of a tropical day feeling, the kind you get on holiday, when everything slows and even the air feels softer. You can recreate it by changing up the timing of your routines. Shower at lunch instead of at night, take a moment for yourself the way people sometimes go to the gym and shower mid-day. It’s indulgent, but not because you’re doing anything complicated. It’s indulgent because it feels like someone else arranged the time and space for you. It turns an ordinary pause into a next level experience, refreshed for the second half of your day.

Private Members Club Solo Work Session

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Working at home in pajamas has its charm, but we’re wanting a next level experience, so we’re going to change the tone. Go somewhere with height. A rooftop. An upper-floor cafe. Anywhere above street level and you’re lifted just enough to feel removed from the noise. Height creates perspective. Your to-do list feels smaller from up there… Order sparkling water, stay for a defined period, ninety minutes exactly. Leave before you’re tired. The boundaries themselves make it feel premium, like someone else designed this moment just for you. The same emails, notes, or creative work suddenly feel staged and elevated. A small change in attire, view, and pacing transforms the ordinary into a next level experience, one that carries a sense of indulgence and structure through the day.

The “Poolside at 4pm” Illusion

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That specific hour at a resort when the day tips into late afternoon. 4pm has its own texture. The light turns honeyed, conversations lower, towels are draped over chairs, someone orders one last drink but no one is really drinking it quickly. It’s the in-between, not the bright, performative part of the day, not yet dinner. Just a suspended pocket where time feels padded.

You can recreate that feeling without a pool.

Let the day hit that slower register. Change into something softer, brighter, maybe pink lounge pants, yellow lightweight jacket. Put your phone on low power mode. Pour something cold into a proper glass. Sit back. Let yourself exist in that drowsy, post-sun softness. Read a few pages. Close your eyes for ten minutes. Stretch out like you’ve been swimming even if you haven’t. It’s the gentle comedown that makes it feel like a resort, that subtle, sleepy contentment.

The “Aperitivo in Florence” Evening

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That moment just as the sun dips low, when the day is neither busy nor over. Make a small plate: olives, bread, cheese, or even just something simple arranged. Stand while you sip your drink, as if there’s nowhere else to be, nothing else to do. This idea can feel new and exciting because of the way you inhabit it, not because of cost or props. Leaning into a mood, sequencing your choices, and letting them shape perception. For a few minutes, the apartment becomes a terrace in Florence and even a weekday evening carries the gentle ease and quiet luxury of a holiday.

And maybe the reason to create these kinds of illusion isn’t escapism. It’s rehearsal? A reminder that your days don’t have to move at one relentless speed, and that you can decide when something ordinary becomes indulgent.

We crave the feelings from past holidays, those “next level” experiences, because they give us permission to slow down, to feel taken care of. But sometimes the upgrade is simpler than a trip abroad, treating a random Tuesday at 4pm as if it deserves the same care and attention we once felt on a hot July day in Italy.

You’re not pretending you’re on holiday. You’re borrowing the feeling and placing it exactly where you are.

These are your favourite next level experiences, recreated to fit your daily routine, to fit how you want to feel. Ordinary moments become elevated, not through extravagance, but through the attention you give, the sequence you arrange, and the way you choose to inhabit them.

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

February sits between winter’s retreat and spring’s arrival, a month that feels simultaneously contained and expansive. There’s space here for sweetness, for excess in small, meaningful doses, days are compressed, yet each one has the ability to feel indulgent. Here’s the February guide, mapped out week by week, to capture the month’s energy, mood, and momentum. A month short in days, yes, but full in feeling, celebration, and possibility.

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Week 1: A Long February Pause

1. A long Valentine’s lunch (even if it’s not Valentine’s yet)

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February feels a little fuller when you take your time over a meal. Treat yourself or someone you love to a long lunch, whether it’s a three-course affair or a single favourite dish paired with a book or journal. Even a solo lunch can feel like a celebration, and shared meals have a way of bringing warmth and colour to otherwise ordinary weekdays. Even if it’s just two hours, it feels like a small celebration, ordering one more plate just because you can, or trying a dish you’ve never had before, makes it feel playful and special. February suddenly feels more luxurious when you have a long break in the middle of the day for yourself.

2. Watch ‘Valentine’s Day’

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The spirit of the month is impossible to ignore. Valentine’s itself might still be a few days away, but this movie makes it feel present in the everyday. It’s chaotic, over-the-top, and completely predictable, but somehow that’s the appeal. The pinks, reds, and absurdly intertwined storylines make it feel like February on screen. There’s something oddly comforting in watching a month’s mood played out in candy-coloured chaos. Perfect background for tidying, journaling, or just sitting with a cup of tea.

3. Go to a botanical garden

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Whether it’s summer or winter, a botanical garden is a perfect way to spend a February afternoon. Bring a notebook, camera, or your phone to capture what stands out, whether for inspiration or just for later, shapes, patterns, or colours that could inspire a project, your home, your cooking, or your wardrobe. Many gardens have cafes nearby, which makes it easy to combine a visit with a coffee or snack. Even a short trip can give the day structure and a small sense of occasion. Visiting a garden is a practical way to get out, see something different, wander, explore, and enjoy something outside the usual plans.

Week 2: Valentine’s, But Make It Personal

1. Host a Galentine’s afternoon tea

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Instead of a traditional Valentine’s dinner, organise an afternoon tea with friends. Fill the table with heart-shaped treats, scones, tiny sandwiches, cookies with pink icing, and encourage everyone to bring something to share. The variety makes the spread feel playful and effortless at the same time. An afternoon tea can shift the focus to shared energy, conversation, and small creative touches rather than one formal meal. Another way to mark February socially, celebrate friendship, and enjoy the excess that comes with the month. You can make it as low-key or as over the top you want, adding patterned tablecloth or colourful plates, your afternoon tea to spend with your closest friends.

2. Buy yourself something new

February is the month when Valentine’s and Lunar New Year overlap, which makes it the perfect time to bring something new into your life. In Chinese tradition, one of the first and most important traditions is to wear new clothes for the new year. It symbolises the idea of change, new beginnings and getting rid of the bad luck from the old year. And, if you’re the year of the horse, you could buy red lingerie, red clothes, or red bracelet since red represents luck and protection. It doesn’t need to be extravagant, the point is to give the month a little lift and mark it for yourself. Wearing, using, or even just owning something new, tradition meets treat-yourself energy. Sometimes the best gifts are the ones you give yourself.

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Week 3: Post-Valentine’s, Pre-Spring

1. Recreate your favourite pink smoothie or milkshake

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Take everything February has to offer in colour and flavour and pour it into a drink. Strawberries, strawberry ice cream, raspberries, rose, cherry, vanilla, mix and match until it’s bright and unapologetically pink. It doesn’t need a reason beyond making the middle of the month feel fun. February is the perfect month to embrace colour and sweetness in your food, and there’s something about a bright, pink drink that lifts the ordinary midweek.

2. Midweek flowers + martinis

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For the week when winter truly starts to wear out its welcome, institute a small, defiant ritual: midweek flowers and a martini. This isn’t about a grand gesture, but perhaps a pact with yourself. On Wednesday, or whichever day feels a need of a pick-me up, pick up a small, bright bouquet, tulips, roses, anything that speaks of the coming spring. Then, at home, shake or stir your coldest, crispest martini, or drink of choice. Together, they are a perfect balancing act to carry you through to the weekend.

3. Take a dance class

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Since the week has been a mix of rituals and treats, switch up your energy by taking a dance class. Whether it’s salsa, hip-hop, beginners adult ballet, or Zumba… Trade a few hours of scrolling for something new and exciting with your friends!

Week 4: Ending the Month Short & Sweet

1. Spring clean

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The overstuffed closet, the chaotic kitchen drawer, end the month with a tangible reset, creating physical and mental space just as the new season is beginning. Create three distinct piles: keep, donate trash. Take action, bag those donations and drop them off at your chosen charity, book a pickup, or list items online. Hopefully you’ll end the month feeling literally and figuratively lighter.

2. A tea ceremony for one

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As February draws to a close, meet it's exit with your own personal tea ceremony. A tea ceremony is built around focus, precision, and the value of a single act done well. Traditionally, it’s about the preparation, the pouring, the care in each movement, and the way a small ritual can structure a moment in time. After a busy month, let this be a meditative practice, to honour the slowness as a new month is about to start.

Thinking about it, I really do have soft spot for this month. It’s brief, bright, and somehow manages to hold a lot at once. Romance, friendship, fresh starts, little treats, bigger feelings, February always leaves an impression.

Use this guide however you like. Maybe one idea becomes a weekly thing, maybe you just pick what suits your mood. There’s no right way to do it, the point is letting the month give you a little more than usual. More colour, more sweetness, more small pleasures tucked into everyday life.

I hope this feels like something you can return to, dip in and out of, or send to a friend when you’re deciding what to do next!

As always, thank you for being here 💌

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

I spent most of the month with my extended family and grandparents, something I only really get to do once a year, which is probably why December always ends up being one of my favourite months. Slower, fuller, a little removed from the usual pace. Apologies for the quietness here!!

Now, January. The first month of the year always feels fresh and exciting, but it also comes with this strange expectation to fix everything all at once or reinvent yourself overnight. And honestly, every goal I’ve ever actually achieved has happened mid-year, long after New Year’s resolutions were forgotten. January doesn’t always need to be about becoming someone new. It already carries enough weight on its own.

It’s a month full of firsts, your first coffee spot of the year, the first long walk, the first dinner with friends, the first outfit you genuinely love, the first book you finish. And instead of treating January like a restart, I like to think of it as a soft relaunch of your personal taste.

Let’s just add a few extras and build around what you already love, what you already know works for you, and what you’re actually looking forward to, making the first month of the year a really good place to begin.

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Week 1: Ease In (settling, noticing, choosing comfort)

1. Start a “current favourites” page

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Before doing anything new, let’s start with creating a single page that captures exactly what you’re genuinely into right now. A “current favourites” page isn’t aspirational or future-facing, but a snapshot of your life as it exists right now. The foods you keep reaching for, the scent you’ve been wearing on repeat, the show you’re halfway through but already obsessed with, the outfit combination that feels the most like you lately, the routines that actually stick. Writing it all down becomes a way of noticing patterns and preferences instead of trying to invent new ones. It’s also reassuring seeing it all laid out, showing you, your life already has shape, preferences, and rhythm, even before the year really begins.

2. Your favourite breakfast

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January mornings set the tone more than we give them credit for, so instead of overhauling your routine or trying to fix them, start with one thing you already enjoy: your favourite breakfast. Not the healthiest one or the most impressive one, but the breakfast you actually look forward to eating. It might be something simple you’ve been making for years, or something you only let yourself have occasionally. Let this be the first small anchor of the year, a daily moment that feels familiar and good. Breakfast becomes less about optimisation and more about ease, comfort, and knowing what works for you.

3. Go to your favourite coffee spot

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This week is about doing what you already know you like, and that includes going back to your favourite coffee spot. The place you always default to. Sit for as long or as little as you want. These places often hold more memory than we realise. It’s a reminder that January doesn’t have to be about upgrades or discovery, it can just be about returning to what already fits. Sometimes it just needs continuity.

Week 2: Editing the Way You See Things

1. Make a vision board using only words and quotes

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A word-only vision board strips the whole process back to language, which is often where clarity actually lives. Instead of images telling you what a life should look like, you’re choosing the exact words that feel accurate to how you want your days to move. This could be phrases cut from magazines, sentences typed and printed, song lyrics, or things you’ve written yourself. The key is specificity. Not vague ideas, but words that describe moods, pace, environments, or values you recognise immediately. It can be a journal page, desktop wallpaper, or taped loosely into a notebook. Something you can return to often, something that reads like a loose manifesto or a set of reminders rather than a list of outcomes, what you’re craving, what you’re curious about, what kind of year you’re subconsciously setting up for yourself.

2. Take photos on a disposable camera/ film camera

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A disposable camera/ film camera forces restraint, which is exactly why it works. You can’t over-document, you can’t delete, you can’t overthink the result, introducing a different pace to documenting your life. You start choosing moments more deliberately, noticing what feels worth capturing. Use it this week to photograph things you’re genuinely drawn to, favourite meals, corners of your neighbourhood, details you notice repeatedly, people you enjoy spending time with. The appeal isn’t nostalgia for the sake of it, but the anticipation: not seeing the images immediately, letting them exist as memories first. When you eventually get them developed, they can become a physical record of what you were paying attention to at the very beginning of the year!

3. Sunrise or sunset picnic

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Pick one morning or evening this week and take it somewhere slightly elevated, a rooftop, a lookout, a park bench with a view, the beach if it’s nearby. Bring coffee, pastries, leftovers. Starting or ending the day like this gives January a sense of scale. You’re watching the day begin or finish instead of rushing straight into it. It could be your first sunrise or sunset of the year!

Week 3: Expanding Your Inner World

1. Host a January catch-up

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Midway through the month is a good time to bring people into your orbit. January can feel strangely empty socially, everyone’s tired, busy, or waiting for the year to properly begin. That’s why hosting something low-effort, casual, and unstructured feels so right this week. Tea on the couch. Wine and takeaway. Just conversations, sitting together, easing back into social rhythms in a way that feels natural. Invite one person, or a few. An old friend, a new friend, someone you haven’t seen properly in a while. The year doesn’t always need to begin with self-improvement in isolation. It can begin in shared spaces, shared meals, shared hours.

2. Research your interests

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This week is about taking the things you’re already drawn to and letting yourself go further with them. Researching your interests doesn’t have to feel academic or serious. If you love food, that might mean reading restaurant reviews you usually skim past, spending time on food blogs, watching chefs talk about their kitchens, or reading memoirs written by people whose lives revolve around cooking. If you’re into fashion, it could be old runway interviews, brand histories, styling essays, or archival images saved into a folder. If you love travel, it might look like reading personal essays, or collecting places you want to return to rather than places you’ve never been. Starting 2026 off by building knowledge around what you already enjoy. To sharpen your taste and give language to why you like what you like.

Week 4: Closing January Well

1. Treat Sundays like mini New Years

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Instead of loading all the pressure onto January 1st, pick a day, Sundays (or Wednesdays, Thursdays…, you choose) as your reset points. Clean your space, clear your notes app, look at the week ahead, adjust plans that don’t feel right anymore. You’re allowed to change your mind every seven days. This takes the weight off “starting perfectly” and replaces it with rhythm. The weeks to follow can become a series of small restarts rather than one dramatic moment you’re supposed to get right. It’s easier, more forgiving, and honestly more realistic.

2. Plan a solo date

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End the month by setting aside one day or evening this week to plan something just for yourself. Treat it with the same care you would if you were making plans with someone else, pick a time, choose a place, build a loose structure. It could be a museum visit after dinner, a long wander through a neighbourhood you like, a bookshop followed by a late coffee, seeing a film alone, or making a special dinner reservation. The point isn’t productivity or self-improvement, but presence. Giving yourself uninterrupted time to move through the city, observe, think, and enjoy your own company. Over time, these solo dates become less about being alone and more about trusting your own pacing and preferences.

3. End January with a closing ritual

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Before the month ends, give it a proper finish. Choose one evening to slow things down, a proper shower or bath, fresh sheets, long journal entry. Not to set goals or plan February, but to acknowledge what this month actually felt like. What surprised you, what stuck, what you’d like more of. Ending January with a clean emotional break between months, so February doesn’t feel like a continuation of noise, but a new chapter built on a solid beginning!

January doesn’t need to feel magical or life-changing. I’m very guilty of thinking the first month will somehow set everything in motion, when really you have the entire year to work on habits, goals, or yourself whenever you’re ready. Doing something like this at the start of the year takes the pressure off. It lets January be calm, steady, and comfortable instead of heavy with expectation. You start the year by giving yourself time rather than demands, which makes everything that follows feel easier to step into.

If the first month feels supportive instead of demanding, the rest of the year I believe will feel less intimidating to step into. January becomes less of a test and more of a foundation, one that you can build on slowly, in your own time.

Thank you so much for reading, truly. If you feel like sharing, I’d love to hear a highlight from your 2025! Mine was the trip I took with my mum to Paris, she’s forever my best friend, and I’m so grateful I got to spend that time with her. And of course, the growth of From Me to You. Your messages, comments, and support has been such a motivator to experiment more, and share the things I’m genuinely excited about with you. I can’t wait to see what the year ahead brings for all of us!

Happy New Year!!!

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

This is a collection of ways to reset, calm, and settle your nervous system. Over the years, I’ve collected a set of strategies to help reset and calm my nervous system when everything feels like too much. A few of these tips come from my Chinese medicine doctors, and I’ve found them surprisingly simple yet effective for easing tension, and will definitely work for preventing that holiday burnout from taking over. Keeping a few of these techniques or remedies on hand makes it easier to hit pause and restore balance whenever you need it.

Here are ways to calm your nervous system, slow down, and take care of yourself while the holiday season keeps spinning around you.

1. 4-7-8 Breathing

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Inhale through your nose for 4 counts, hold for 7, then exhale through your mouth for 8. Focus on the rhythm of your breath as it flows in and out. This method helps slow your heartbeat and calm your mind, giving your nervous system a gentle reset when things start to feel overwhelming.

2. Balloon Breathing

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Inhale deeply and blow into a small balloon, letting it expand slowly, then let the air out gently. The act of filling and releasing the balloon helps focus your attention on steady breathing, encourages full lung movement, and gives a simple way to ease tension.

3. Pretend You’re Blowing Out 12 Birthday Candles

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Imagine a row of candles in front of you, or real ones, and take your time blowing each one out, pausing between each. Let your chest and shoulders soften as you go, it’s a small, playful way to let tension drift away and create a sense of calm.

4. Tissue Tunnel Breathing

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Hold a tissue loosely in front of your lips and see if you can keep it fluttering for 30 seconds. Another way to focus on a gentle movement that helps let your chest and shoulders relax. I love this exercise to help slow the pace of racing thoughts.

5. Soft Toy Hug

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Pick your favourite softest stuffed animal, plush, or blanket and hug it tightly for 10–20 seconds. Let your body register a sense of comfort and security, which can naturally ease tension and bring a moment of calm.

6. Wearing Something Soft

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Similar to the last one but put on your softest jumper, robe, or pyjama set. Again something to do with soft textures to signal safety to the nervous system, helping your body relax. A tiny switch that can shift your whole internal state, especially during a busy holiday season.

7. Warm Rice Bag

Heat a small rice bag in the microwave until comfortably warm, then hold it against your shoulders, lap, or wherever you feel tension. Let the warmth relax your muscles, headache etc. Simple way to create a cosy pause in the day, letting your body settle and your thoughts ease without needing to do anything else.

8. Cookie Dough Knead

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Grab your cookie dough and start kneading, press, fold, and work it with your hands. This is perfect for the holiday season: the act of kneading gives your mind something concrete to do, which can help distract from the chaos and make the whole process of baking feel satisfying and grounding. Plus, there’s always a sweet reward at the end!

9. Karaoke

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Pick a few of your favourite songs, grab a microphone or just use your phone, and sing at the top of your lungs. This is a fun way to release built-up energy, get your body moving, and shift your focus from holiday stress to something joyful and immersive.

10. Non-Dominant Hand Drawing

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Take a pen or pencil and start doodling or sketching with your non-dominant hand. This exercise redirects your attention, sparks creativity, and gives your brain a different kind of focus, helping to step away from stress and repetitive thoughts.

11. Mini Zen Garden

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Fill a small dish or shoe box with sand or salt and arrange tiny patterns, stones, mini plants, or figurines. Raking, shaping, and adjusting the elements keeps your hands busy and your mind engaged in a simple, hands-on activity. It’s a compact way to create a small, calming environment you can interact with anytime.

12. Sensory Path

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Lay out a small path of different textures, like a soft blanket, then a rug, wrapping paper, then bubble wrap, and walk barefoot over it. Experiencing a variety of surfaces under your feet draws your attention outward.

13. Paper Boat River

Fold tiny paper boats and float them in a bowl or tray of water. Use a straw to nudge them along, watching them drift and spin. The simple, repetitive motion gives your hands something to do and your mind a focus point.

14. TCM Chest Tapping

Link your fingers together and gently knock your hands against the centre of your chest. In Chinese medicine, this technique is believed to stimulate lung and heart energy, improve circulation, and support emotional balance. It’s a practice that can help the body feel more awake and centred when things feel overwhelming.

15. Moxibustion

Light a moxa stick or cone and hold it near specific acupoints on your body, allowing the gentle warmth and herbal properties of mugwort to penetrate the skin without burning it. This technique is often used in TCM to help settle emotions that tend to accumulate in the stomach, support digestion, and create a sense of calm when tension or nervous energy builds.

16. Herbal Steam Face

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Boil water with chamomile, peppermint, or rose petals, then lean over the steam with a towel draped over your head to trap the warmth. The gentle heat opens pores, the aromas can be soothing, and the ritual of steaming your face creates a moment to reset during a busy day.

17. Acupuncture Foot Mats

Stand or walk on a textured acupuncture mat for a few minutes. It might feel intense at first, but listen to some music, stomp on it, but the pressure on key points in your feet can support circulation and release tension.

18. Ear Acupressure

Gently press or massage points around your ears with your fingertips for a few minutes. In Chinese medicine, the ears connect to many areas of the body, including digestion, sleep, and the nervous system . Stimulating them can help ease built-up tension and help calm your system!

19. Memory Jar

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Write down a few favourite happy or surprising memories on slips of paper and drop them into a jar. Whenever stress or overwhelm shows up, pull one out and revisit it. This exercise helps shift focus from the present intensity to moments that bring comfort and joy, creating pockets of calm throughout the holiday season.

20. Aromatic Cotton Cloth

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Place a cotton cloth or small square of fabric infused with essential oils like lavender, cedarwood, or chamomile under your pillow or nearby. Let the scent surround you as you sit or lie down, providing an atmosphere that helps your mind settle without needing any extra effort.

21. Tea Ceremony for One

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Warm the teapot, rinse the leaves, and steep them in short, gentle infusions. Pour the tea into a small cup and take your time with each step, smelling the leaves as they open, watching the colour shift with every pour. The process is deliberately slow and layered. When everything feels overwhelming, this kind of ritual creates the perfect soft anchor point for your nervous system.

22. Baths

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Lastly, the most classic reset: Baths. Draw a warm bath, add a few drops of essential oil, a handful of Epsom salts, or add herbal packs. End the night or start the day if you wake feeling anxious, and pair it with whatever feels right, listening to your favourite music, watching a show, reading, or simply sitting in silence. Taking a bath is always a good start to resetting in a routine, calming the mind and body!

The holiday season can push your nervous system into overdrive, with constant activity, social obligations, and the never-ending to-do lists. These practices can be used as tools to actively support your body and mind when the energy around you starts to feel intense. Keeping a few of these on hand allows you to hit reset whenever things feel overwhelming, helping you move through the season with more ease, less tension, and a clearer sense of calm. Over time, these small moments of care can create a buffer against burnout, letting you actually enjoy the holidays instead of just surviving them.

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

This month is about amplifying joy, chasing moments that feel alive, and letting yourself fully lean into the energy around you. It’s about celebrating small wins, savouring rituals that feel special, and noticing how the last weeks of the year can shift your perspective.

December is both playful and reflective. It’s the time to bring light to your everyday, to indulge in what feels good, and to honour the lessons, the people, and the moments that carried you through the year. It’s a month for big energy and small joys and for a sense of presence that only the final chapter of a year can bring. Your official December playbook. Tie the bow on this year. The final guide of 2025 is here to help make the month feel full, meaningful, and memorable.

Here’s the December guide, mapped out week by week, ideas, activities, and ways to stretch the energy of the month. Each week is its own chapter, designed to make the month magical in a way only December can.

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Week 1: Small Joys, Big Energy

1. Shower like you’ve stepped into a winter wonderland

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Swap your everyday shower products for ones that feel distinctly of the season. Think eucalyptus to wake you up, mint to sharpen your senses, warming ginger for a little spice, or soft vanilla for comfort. You could even go all out and find festive scents like candy cane or spiced cookies to really lean into the holiday vibe. Use a shower gel, scrub, or shampoo that transforms your bathroom into a space that smells like a cozy winter market or a walk through a snow-dusted forest. Slip into a thick towel, oversized sweater, or cosy robe, letting yourself feel fully wrapped in the textures of winter. It’s possible to even shift your shower routine, an everyday moment feel a little more magical, as if you’ve just stepped out into a winter wonderland.

1. Philosophy - Snow Angel Hydrating Shower Gel 2. Tree Hut - Merry Mint Shea Sugar Scrub 3. Bath & Body Works - Winter Candy Apple Body Lotion 4. Bath & Body Works - Santa’s Milk & Cookies Hand Soap

2. Hunt down limited-edition holiday treats

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Another reason to get excited this month. The treat that only appear in colder festive months. There’s something thrilling about spotting a product that only exists for the holidays, a peppermint hot chocolate mix, a gingerbread flavoured cookie, or a tiny tin of spiced chocolates. The joy of discovery, the way a seasonal product can make your mood feel more festive. This is the time to treat yourself to tastes that feel like the holidays. Seek them out at local bakeries, holiday markets, your local grocery store, or specialty stores, the kind of treats you don’t see the rest of the year. Share them with friends, pair them with a warm drink, or save them for a cosy night in, these little discoveries can really help amplify the holiday energy in everyday life!

3. Add subtle touches of red to your space

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Red has a way of transforming a room without needing a full overhaul. A simple ribbon tied around a candle, a few sprigs of faux berries in a vase, or even red napkins or mugs. It’s a small touch, but it signals the season and creates a festive atmosphere without feeling overdone. Think about where your eyes naturally land in a room and place these pops of colour there, they catch your attention and make everyday corners feel a little more special. You could even swap out smaller decor items you already have for ones in red, or pick up a tiny ornament to rest on a shelf or table. Subtle nod to the holidays, a detail that elevates the space you’re in and reminds you that December is here.

Week 2: Nostalgia & Warmth

1. Revisit one childhood winter activity

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December is the perfect month to reconnect with winter activities you loved as a child. Whether it was building snowmen, making paper snowflakes, dipping candy canes in your hot chocolate, decorating the tree, making small goody bags for friends (my fondest memory is giving out candy canes on the last day of school before Christmas and receiving so many different flavoured ones from other students in return), or even simple things like crafting DIY gift tags. There’s something about doing something purely for the joy of it, without any pressure or expectation, that reminds you how fun the simplest things can be. You could even invite a friend to join, or go solo and let it be your reminder of why this month always felt so genuine and magical.

2. Take a late-night stroll or drive to see your neighbourhood lights

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There’s a certain magic to seeing holiday lights at night. Unlike any other month, the city feels alive at night, more people are out than usual, wandering slowly, sipping hot drinks, pausing in front of houses to admire decorations. There’s a sense of curiosity and shared excitement in the air. Windows glow with twinkling lights, shop fronts are dressed up, and familiar streets suddenly feel festive in ways they don’t the rest of the year. Whether you choose to walk or take a slow drive, it’s one of those moments when the city feels alive in a very specific, December activity only way, a mix of lights, movement, and energy that makes you want to just watch. The perfect little seasonal ritual, even if just for a single evening.

3. Go to a hotel lobby to soak in the holiday ambiance

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Hotel lobbies feel extra cosy this time of year. Tall, perfectly decorated trees, garlands, and twinkling golden lights fill the space, while the warmth inside is a contrast to the winter air outside, and there’s a gentle hum of activity, people arriving, checking in, checking out... It’s a space that feels both lively and calm at the same time. So sit and read, catch up on emails, or even do some work. The combination of polished interiors, holiday decorations, a little oasis in the middle of the city, the way the space is curated for comfort and beauty. Unlike a regular cafe or home, hotel lobbies are designed to make you feel like you’ve stepped into a curated world for a moment. Even if you’re alone, it feels cosy rather than lonely, a reminder of the warmth and celebration surrounding this season.

Week 3: Festive Adventures & Experiences

1. Start a December tradition you’ll repeat every year

This is the month to try something you can come back to every year, something simple that marks the season. It could be creative, fun, a time and place every year to gather friends with busy schedules, or just something that makes you feel connected to the month. No matter what, creating new traditions with friends and family can create recurring rituals feel deeply personal and celebratory, something you continuously look forward to year after year.

Examples:

• Host a handmade ornament workshop: Set up a cosy space, make a charcuterie board, and invite your friends over. Make different ornaments together for a new little memory every year and have it as something to look at in the years ahead. You could make ornaments out of clay, gold foil, lockets and add small group photos. Polaroids work too, punch a tiny hole, thread a ribbon through, and hang it on the tree. A memory captured in something tangible.

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• Host a cookie baking or gingerbread decorating session: Baking together is one of the easiest ways to create a tradition that feels lively and warm. Pick a recipe or style you want to return to every year: classic gingerbread, chocolate crinkle, sugar cookies with royal icing. There’s something so festive about measuring flour, rolling dough, and piping icing while listening to holiday music. Over the years, these sessions grow into something you’ll anticipate annually.

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2. Ice skating at night

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Hitting the rink in December instantly feels like a seasonal treat. Right out of a Christmas movie. Rinks are often dressed up for the season, with lights, music, definitely one of those activities that immediately signals “holiday mode,” giving you a reason to carve out time for something playful and out of the ordinary. It’s as much about the experience, the people, and the city around you as it is about skating. An activity that feels active, festive, and effortless all at once, something you can genuinely look forward to each year. Bonus: hot chocolate afterward makes it feel even more like a celebratory outing.

3. Watch a ballet or holiday play

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December is stacked with performances that only show up this time of year, so it’s the best moment to finally go see one. The Nutcracker is the obvious classic, everyone knows the music, the costumes, the sugar plum fairy… but seeing it live hits differently than watching clips online. I’ve always had a soft spot for ballet; I grew up doing it, and my mum was a professional dancer, so watching a full production feels familiar in the best way. Dressing up, finding your seat, seeing the whole story come together on stage, it’s one of my favourite things to do. Whenever we had the chance, it was the first thing on my holiday wishlist. The same goes for holiday plays or concerts your city puts on: small theatre companies doing their own versions of well-known stories, orchestras performing end of year programmes, even schools and community groups putting on surprisingly impressive shows. Whether it’s The Nutcracker, a small local production, or a holiday play your city puts on, it’s an easy way to give yourself a night that feels special. Book a ticket, get there a little early, and just enjoy being in the audience.

Week 4: Tie the Bow on 2025

1. Your 2025 recap

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Instead of a long journal entry, break the year down into simple sections. It’s clearer, and easier. Add how many categories you want, whatever works with the year you’ve had!

• Best decision: the choice that shifted you in the right direction.

• Worst habit: the thing you kept doing even though you knew it wasn’t helping.

• Most unexpected change: the surprise that shaped more of your year than you realised.

• A person who entered your life at the right time: someone whose timing still feels uncanny.

• A moment you didn’t realise was important until later: those tiny scenes that suddenly explain everything in hindsight.

2. Write a letter to your January self

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Imagine the version of you who started this year, the goals, the guesses, the things you thought would matter. Write to them from where you are now. Tell them what actually happened, what you wish they had known, what surprised you, and what they didn’t need to fear. Closing the loop before 2026. Put down the things you learned the long way, the things you’re proud of, and the things you’re ready to release. Seal it, save it, or keep it somewhere you’ll stumble across later. Another marker of growth.

3. Plan your 2026 mood board

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This is less about goals and more about direction, how you want next year to feel. Open a blank canvas or a physical board and start collecting images that match the energy you want to carry into 2026: aesthetics you’re drawn to, spaces you want to be in, colours that keep showing up for you, people or styles that inspire you, themes you want to lean into. Set the tone rather than setting expectations. Once everything is laid out, you’ll start to notice patterns, little visual clues about the kind of year you’re craving. That board becomes your first step into 2026, a reference point you can keep coming back to.

Week 5: The Bonus Days

1. A lasts list

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Make a list of the things you want to experience one last time before the year ends, your last favourite cafe visit of 2025, something on your list from other months or 2025 goals that you might still have time to complete, or have a reading marathon and finish whatever books you started. Turn the final stretch into something light and intentional without being heavy.

2. Bake a cake for yourself + the year

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The last days of the year have a strange mood, half celebration, half wrapping things up. Baking a cake fits perfectly into that space. It’s hands-on and a way to mark the year without turning it into a big production. Choose any recipe you love: a simple vanilla sponge, something chocolatey. Frost it, decorate it, add sprinkles, berries, or write the year on top if you want to be extra. Maybe it could be another small ceremony you can look forward to every December. Cut the first slice on New Years Eve. It becomes its own celebration: not for an achievement or milestone, but simply for making it through the year and growing in ways you didn’t even realise while they were happening.

And that’s it, the final month of 2025 wrapped up in one guide.

December has a special place in my hear, though it moves at a weird speed, one minute you’re buying wrapping paper and the next it’s already the 28th and you’re wondering where the month went. But, it wraps the year in warmth and reminds you how far you’ve come. Here’s to your final pages of 2025 feeling meaningful, gentle, and full of light.

I loved putting this guide together. Some of these ideas are cosy, some are social, some are just fun for the sake of it. Try one, try all, or save a few for next year. I hope your December feels easy, a little chaotic in a good way, and full of moments that remind you you’re allowed to enjoy things without overthinking them.

Celebrate yourself, eat something delicious, have it be magical!

Chat soon!

Nancy xx

What used to be automatic, drawing after school, experimenting in the kitchen, picking up random crafts, reading for hours, starts to feel like a luxury you have to earn. Between classes, assignments, part-time or full-time jobs, hanging out with friends, relationships, and trying to manage the rest of your life, your schedule fills itself before you even think about what you actually enjoy. The things that used to make your days feel fuller are suddenly the first to get pushed aside. Not because you don’t care about them anymore, but because they require the one thing you’re always short on: mental space.

It’s easy to look at your week and assume hobbies don’t fit into it. You’re tired, you’re busy, and your brain is already juggling deadlines. Even when you try to bring something fun back into your routine, it can feel like one more thing to manage. That disconnect, wanting to stay creative and engaged, but feeling like you don’t have the capacity for it, is what makes this stage of life so frustrating.

But it doesn’t have to stay that way. You don’t need a full evening, a perfect routine, or a dramatic lifestyle reset to keep hobbies alive. You just need a different approach, one that works with your real schedule, your real energy levels, and the person you are right now. The goal isn’t to balance everything or create a picture perfect routine. It’s simply to keep the parts of you that make life interesting from fading into the background.

1. Swap the to-do list for a momentum list

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Traditional to-do lists are great for responsibilities, but terrible for hobbies. They make everything feel like a task you have to complete, and the moment something fun lands on that list, it becomes another item you either did or failed to do. A momentum list works differently. Instead of writing down rigid goals, finish this, complete that, you write down things you want to move forward in small ways throughout the week. It removes the pressure of completion and focuses on progress instead.

For example, instead of “read 50 pages,” the momentum version is simply “choose my book” and go from there. Instead of “work on my Substack”, it becomes “open the draft once this week.” You’re not grading yourself on outcomes. You’re creating openings for your hobbies to exist again, even if it’s only for five minutes at a time. The psychological shift is huge: when the expectation is lowered, you end up doing more, and enjoying it more, because the barrier to entry is almost nonexistent. A momentum list keeps your interests active without making them feel like homework, which is exactly what a busy schedule needs.

2. Choose a weekly focus

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When life gets busy, trying to keep every hobby alive at the same time is the fastest way to burn out. A weekly focus simplifies everything. At the start of each week, choose one area you want to give a little more attention to, studying, cooking, fashion content, journaling, anything. This structure removes the pressure to balance everything, because balance is unrealistic when you’re juggling school, work, and responsibilities. A weekly focus gives your mind a theme, a direction. It lets you build small moments around one interest instead of scattering your energy everywhere.

Maybe this week is your film week, where you finally watch the movies on your list. Next week could be your creation week, where you work on your newsletter or a personal project. The week after that might be your physical reset week, where you lean into movement, stretching, or long walks. By the end of the month, you’ve touched multiple hobbies without overwhelming yourself. Everything gets its moment, nothing feels neglected, and you feel more involved in your own life because each week has a clear tone instead of chaotic multitasking.

3. Match your activities to your current energy level

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One of the biggest reasons hobbies disappear is because we plan them based on the idea of who we want to be, not the energy we actually have. Matching your hobbies to your real energy levels makes everything easier and more sustainable. On low-energy days, pick hobbies that feel gentle and doable: editing photos, journaling, or colouring books. On high-energy days, dive into the bigger things: cooking a proper recipe, filming content, or creating something from scratch. These are the days when you naturally have more focus and stamina, so you might as well use them without guilt. This approach stops hobbies from feeling like work. You’re no longer fighting yourself or trying to live up to a schedule that doesn’t match your life. Make your hobbies feel like support, not another obligation.

4. Mix, don’t divide

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Instead of compartmentalising hobbies into neat, separate boxes, think of them as layers of a single identity. You’re not just someone who likes to cook, and likes to paint, and likes fashion, you’re a single, multidimensional person exploring your interests in ways that naturally intersect. This perspective turns every activity into an opportunity to layer experiences and skills rather than fracture your time across countless unrelated tasks. Cooking a recipe isn’t just about food; it can be an opportunity to experiment with styling or photography. Journaling can double as people watching notes or inspiration for a creative project. You can film study sessions like mini vlogs, write reflections on fashion trends as part of a personal essay, read while eating lunch, listen to language lessons during your commute.

When you blur the lines between hobbies instead of isolating them, you stop feeling like you’re juggling too many things. Every interest feeds into another, creating a cohesive flow of productivity and creativity. Your free time stops being a series of separate obligations, it becomes a single, integrated playground for exploration.

5. Mini hobbies hiatus

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Back in July and August, I hit a mental block where even opening Substack or starting a creative project felt impossible. I ended up stepping completely away for a few weeks, almost like a digital detox for all my interests. Surprisingly, that break didn’t make me fall behind, it gave me the space to miss creating and allowed my energy to return naturally. You don’t need to take a full month off like I did, but even a few days from time to time where you step back from all hobbies, projects, and personal interests can be incredibly refreshing. No writing, no side projects, no planning, no productive creativity.

When you return, you’ll likely notice your energy and ideas are sharper, and the things you were struggling to engage with feel exciting again. A mini hiatus almost works like a reboot: time away can help you approach your interests with fresh eyes, new ideas, and the kind of curiosity that makes hobbies feel fun again rather than another thing to tick off. Step away so you can return better.

6. Legacy projects

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Lastly, making hobbies into legacy projects. When life is busy and hobbies feel like they only exist in fragments, give all your small creative efforts a lasting home. Think of it as building something that grows over time, week by week, without overwhelming your schedule. This could be a photo journal that captures the little details of your days, a recipe collection on cards you designed that traces the meals you’ve experimented with, a fashion mood board charting your evolving style, or a mini essay series exploring topics that matter to you. Each contribution might be just a paragraph, a sketch, a photograph, or a single recipe, but over time, these tiny pieces accumulate into something substantial. Legacy projects give your hobbies a sense of continuity, a reminder that even brief, seemingly insignificant efforts matter because they feed into a bigger story.

Instead of feeling like you’re constantly starting and stopping, you have a framework where each small action contributes to a longer journey. You can return to it whenever you have a few minutes or a couple of hours, without pressure, and still feel progress. Legacy projects leaves behind something tangible, an archive of your ideas, growth, and perspective, something that reflects your identity beyond the constraints of a busy schedule.

There is no perfect week where everything suddenly opens up. Life doesn’t pause for you to catch up on your hobbies, and it rarely hands you a clear, uninterrupted block of time. Some weeks, you’ll have a whole afternoon to dive into projects, cook something new, or write for hours. Other weeks, you might only have ten minutes between classes, work, or errands. That doesn’t mean you’ve failed your hobbies, or that your creativity has vanished. It means your life is shifting, and your approach needs to shift with it. Fun and engagement don’t have to exist on a fixed schedule, they can be flexible, adaptable, and surprisingly resilient when treated that way.

Even in the busiest seasons, hobbies can persist. And they should. They can adapt, evolve, and remain a meaningful part of your life. Keep them present, and you’ll find that no matter how packed your weeks get, your creative life can still thrive alongside everything else you’re juggling.

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

There’s a bit of everything in November: celebration, reflection, and a dash of chaos. It’s the soft launch of the holidays, the start of that stretch where life starts to feel even more cinematic. Think brunches that turn into spontaneous gift shopping trips, finding the perfect coat, baking something for the cosy vibe, rewatching comfort movies while you wrap small gifts.

Put the same energy you save for December into November. Dress up for weekday plans, go somewhere new just because you feel like celebrating, and let the month unfold like a montage of beautiful scenes. It’s the moment before the holidays take over. November definitely has that feeling of being on the verge of something but with being a new month, it brings new energy and excitement about what’s coming next. So, completely hone into the feeling that this month can bring luck, new opportunities, and that good things can still happen when you least expect them.

Each week is its own chapter: a small collection of things to do, see, and create that make the month feel brighter and more alive.

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Week 1: Settling into November

1. Pre‑winter clean

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Before November picks up pace, dedicate time to refresh your home. Check closets, shelves, kitchen cupboards, and bathrooms, anywhere things tend to pile up or get forgotten. Pay attention to damp corners or mould, especially under sinks or near windows, and create a space that supports your health and comfort as the air gets colder. Organise now so that when the busy weeks arrive, everything has its place: your clothes, your kitchen, your bathroom, even your bedside essentials. A reset that helps you glide through the month without the small, daily friction of misplaced things. Making it easier to host friends, focus on projects, or enjoy spontaneous pre-holiday plans without scrambling.

2. Buy yourself a new pair of pyjamas

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Start November by treating yourself to pyjamas that feel like more than just sleepwear. Pick something that makes getting ready for bed feel special, a matching set in silk, satin, or soft cotton, in a colour or pattern that hints at the season ahead. Think of them as your uniform for cosy evenings. Put them on after a long day, light a candle, brew your favourite tea. There’s something so special knowing you have a pair reserved for this time of year, something that makes staying in feel personal and luxurious. It’s a small act that sets the tone for the weeks to come.

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3. Window art project

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Pick a window in your home that catches sunlight at some point in the day. Use painter’s tape, markers, or paper cutouts to create shapes, phrases, or patterns. It could be leaves falling, abstract shapes in autumn/ winter colours, or a quote that resonates with how you want to feel. As the day changes, the artwork will shift with it. This project can be a playful way to transform your living space, turning a simple window into a canvas that interacts with the season. Even a small addition like this can make your home feel more engaging and alive, and also fun to notice how light, space, and creativity can shape your mood throughout the month.

4. Buy yourself a seasonal magazine

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Make this a deliberate treat: head to a bookstore or newsstand, select the issue that officially marks November. The ritual of buying a physical magazine each month. Use it as a tool to gather inspiration for the month ahead, or look at the interiors, table settings, decor ideas, and styling tips. Notice how they could translate into your own life: maybe a colour combination inspires your kitchen setup, a tabletop styling inspires your next dinner, or an image sparks an idea for a weekend activity.

Week 2: Exploration and Finds

1. Go to a book or poetry reading

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Check what’s on locally, a new book launch, poetry night, or author talk. It doesn’t have to be a big event, smaller venues like independent bookstores or community halls often have the best atmosphere. Go alone or with a friend. Listen to how people speak about their work, the way they express ideas, or the topics they choose to focus on. Events like these offer a simple way to refresh your week, a night out that still feels thoughtful, surrounded by ideas, new perspectives, and, new faces.

2. Night market wander

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Find a nearby night market and make it your evening plan one evening this week. Go for the food, the buzz, and the people-watching. Try one new dish, buy something small, or find a drink stall you actually like. It’s also an easy way to spend a Friday or Saturday without needing a full dinner reservation. Markets like these tend to remind you that small pleasures, food, music, people-watching can all be enough to make a night feel full.

3. Vintage market hopping

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Dedicate a morning to visiting a few vintage markets or thrift spots around the city. This can be more like a fun seasonal activity. Search for items that fit November: a heavy coat that feels right for the weather, a pair of leather gloves, or a ceramic mug that makes your morning coffee feel more comforting. Small finds like these make your space and wardrobe feel more personal, bringing warmth, texture, and character into your everyday routine as the colder weeks begin.

Week 3: Cosy Culinary Moments

1. Cook a meal from a movie you love

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Choose a film where food plays a part, or even something nostalgic from your childhood. Recreate one dish from it, whether it’s pasta, soup, or dessert. Play the soundtrack, pour yourself a drink, and let it feel like a themed night rather than just dinner. Another playful idea to bring a bit of storytelling into your kitchen.

2. Hot chocolate crawl

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Transform a simple afternoon or evening into a tasting adventure. Choose three cafes or dessert spots in your neighbourhood or city, and order their hot chocolate, maybe one is rich and dark, another light and milky, the third spiced or topped with whipped cream. Walk between locations, take notes and compare each cup on their texture, sweetness, flavour. Bring a friend if you like, or make it your own mini adventure, a way to move through the city while staying warm, indulging, and feeling the shift of the season.

3. November inspired charcuterie night

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Invite a few friends over and make the night entirely about assembling boards together. Each person brings one ingredient, roasted nuts, cured meats, pickled vegetables, roasted chestnuts, creamy cheese, spiced crackers, preserved fruits, roasted root vegetables, or a bottle of mulled wine. Let the boards grow, change, and evolve as people contribute. It’s social, it turns dinner into a collaborative experience. No real structure, no perfect setup, just good food and a comfortable mix of company. A night like this, the kind of low-pressure gathering, can remind you how easy it is to make a night special with very little planning.

Week 4: Pre-Holiday Prep

1. November Letters

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This month, set aside a block of time to write three letters to people in your life, friends, family, or someone you’ve been meaning to catch up with. They don’t have to be long or formal, just a few lines: a quick update on what you’ve been up to, a note of thanks, or a simple hello. Fold each letter neatly, slip it in an envelope, and either mail it or leave it somewhere for the person to discover, maybe on their desk, or tucked inside a book they’ve been meaning to read. The year is closing in, and gestures that show connection or thoughtfulness feel more meaningful. By the time the envelopes are sent, you’ve not only reached out, you’ve created a small moment of surprise and warmth in someone else’s day, while also carving out a creative, reflective space in your own month. Think of it as an exercise in noticing who matters, and letting them know it, without pressure, without a reason, just a handwritten touch that makes the colder weeks feel a little brighter.

2. Start early with holiday touches

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Start layering subtle holiday elements into your space. You might hang a wreath on the door, drape string lights over a shelf, or arrange a candle and seasonal trinkets on a table or windowsill. Focus on items that feel like an extension of your space, not a full transformation, a small stack of pinecones, a set of glass ornaments. By beginning these touches now, the home slowly transitions into the festive months, making your space feel alive. When friends drop by, your surroundings already feel ready to welcome gatherings or cosy evenings in. Doing this early lets you enjoy the excitement of holiday planning, gradually accumulating a sense of anticipation and energy without rushing December.

3. Make your own advent calendar

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Create a personalised advent calendar to bridge November into December. Maybe, just maybe, this year you want to skip the commercial chocolates and instead fill envelopes, pouches, or boxes with little surprises that feel meaningful to you or the person you’re making it for. Think handwritten notes, favourite snacks, prompts for mini-adventures, or tiny objects like a charm, a seasonal trinket, or even a small candle. Arrange them in numerical order on a shelf, table, mantle, or scatter them throughout your home as a treasure hunt. Crafting it yourself adds a layer of creativity: the calendar is no longer a generic countdown, but a collection of moments and ideas that reflect your November mindset. Starting December with this calendar feels like a continuation of the month rather than a sudden shift, keeping the energy playful and anticipatory.

Bonus: Book a one-night solo staycation

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As the year nears its end, it’s natural to crave a little indulgence, to reward yourself for all you’ve done. A solo staycation is the perfect way to do that. Pick a nearby hotel, guesthouse, or Airbnb, even if it’s just down the road. Soft sheets, a plush robe, warm lighting, maybe even room service. This is a time to treat yourself because you deserve it: to relax fully, to enjoy comfort without compromise. November invites these moments, it’s a natural month for being a little more generous with yourself, for turning ordinary nights into small celebrations, and for recognising that self‑care can feel luxurious without being complicated. Dedicate a night entirely to yourself, you give the end of November a sense of ceremony, and step into December feeling replenished, appreciated, and ready for the final chapter of the year.

November moves fast, but it also gives space for experiences that feel special without needing to be extravagant. From hot cocoa crawls to vintage market finds and solo staycations, it’s a month where small moments and everyday life gets a little lift. It’s natural to give yourself extra treats this time of year, to buy something you’ve been wanting, to try a new recipe, to make an ordinary day feel a little different. November is a chance to add texture and variety to your days, to connect with people, and to create moments that you’ll remember when the year starts to close.

By the end of the month, you’ll have a patchwork of experiences, letters sent, meals cooked, markets explored, nights spent in new pyjamas, and ideas for the holidays starting to take shape. It’s a month that sets the tone for how the final weeks of the year feel, offering bursts of excitement, comfort, and curiosity all at once. December will arrive soon, but November gives you reasons to look forward to what’s ahead while enjoying what’s happening right now.

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

Do you feel it too? The last three months of the year, especially October, reward attention to the everyday. There’s clarity to the month, and in my opinion, it’s the easiest time to influence how you live your days. What you cook, what you wear, how you spend your mornings, moments that squeeze out excitement and comfort from everyday life. Still warm enough for a cafe visit but can order a hot seasonal drink, yet cool enough to crave golden lights, cosy corners, home baking, or working somewhere that feels like a home away from home.

Halloween decorations, autumnal colours, pumpkin-spiced treats, there’s warmth, there’s energy. October encourages you to play with your environment, experiment with habits, and indulge in the textures of the season. The best feeling is when you start to feel in tune with the month.

Here’s the October guide, ideas to make the month feel richer. Each week is its own chapter. October is about embracing the season, holding onto its light, and squeezing out as much warmth, comfort, and excitement as possible.

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Week 1: Settling into October

1. Reset Your Mornings and Nights

October is a natural point to rethink the frameworks that guide your days, swapping in seasonal tweaks for morning and night routines. In the mornings, you could swap out iced coffee or smoothies for something warmer: a spiced latte, hot chocolate, or simply your favourite tea. As the mornings grow darker, turn on lamps instead of the harsh overhead light, light a few candles, find ways to romanticise the early hour. In the evenings, lean into comfort: longer pajamas, throw blankets, and fluffy robes. Simple seasonal shifts like these reset your days for the new month, making the start and finish of each day feel a little more in tune with October.

2. Season-Themed Grocery Run / Farmers Market

Step into the month with an autumnal shopping mindset. Head to your local market or grocery store and look for ingredients that are and feel seasonal: pumpkin, chestnuts, apples, fresh herbs. Pay attention to the colours and varieties as you shop and pick up a few items that could inspire cosy meals at home: colourful veges, spiced fruit loaf, cardamon. Line up your fresh produce on the counter and let it inspire how you’ll use it over the coming days. A grocery run or trip to the farmers market is an easy way to bring the season into your kitchen, influencing the meals you cook, the drinks you make, and helping you feel more inspired with how you nourish yourself.

3. Movie Night

Turn an ordinary evening into something special by creating your own cinema. Gather blankets, pillows, anything that makes your space feel cosy. Dim the lights and add a few small lamps or fairy lights to give the room ambience. Make a “concession stand” with popcorn and toppings, cinnamon sugar, chocolate chips, chilli salt. Pick a film that fits the mood: maybe a season classic or a favourite comfort film. Nights like this make staying in feel like a treat; with the evenings longer, it’s the perfect time to shift into more home-based activities.

Week 2: Autumn Dopamine

1. Bake, Bake, Bake

This month, let baking take centre stage. Fill your kitchen with the smells of your favourite treats, carrot cake, pumpkin loaf, sweet potato muffins, spiced cookies, sugar cookies. Don’t hold back: layer flavours, experiment with toppings, revisit a classic recipe with a new twist. Baking becomes a way to fill the home with warmth and seasonal energy, a little boost for any afternoon.

2. Heated Workout

Take your usual movement routine and add warmth, intensity, or just a new format to wake up your body. Whether it’s a hot yoga flow, a HIIT circuit, or hot pilates class, make it something that challenges you and leaves you feeling energised. Layer up in comfortable activewear, feel the difference between the crisp air outside and the heat inside. Shake up the slower mornings and enjoy the post-workout glow as a reward for showing up for yourself.

3. Fika

Make time for a proper fika this week, a deliberate pause that feels different from your usual coffee break. At home or at a cafe, sit down with drink and a small baked treat: a cinnamon bun, cardamom roll, or a slice of your weekend bake. Carve out a moment in the day that feels meaningful. Let the act of stopping, tasting, and enjoying become its own little celebration of the season. By the time you leave, even an hour-long break can lift your mood, give your afternoon a gentle spark, and remind you that slowing down can feel as indulgent as anything else. Bring someone along for conversation, or simply enjoy a solo pause to breathe and recharge.

4. Soup Sunday

Make Sunday your unofficial soup day. Soup Sunday fits perfectly into October because it matches the month’s energy: a balance of warmth and freshness, comfort and clarity. Make use of your fresh produce and celebrate the changing season in your kitchen. Try recipes you’ve never made before, or give a twist to a classic favourite: roasted pumpkin with ginger and turmeric, chilli dal, miso with greens, or pea and mint.

Week 3: Play & Treats

1. Flower Arranging Class

Take a class, or even just set aside some time at home to work with flowers in rich, autumnal tones. Think wine reds, rich burgundies, deep purples, dusty greens, include dried stems, berries, elements to give your arrangements depth. This is an activity that’s both creative and inspiring. Use it to decorate a table, a shelf, a mantel, letting your space reflect the textures and tones of autumn!

2. Go Eat a Hot Bowl of Noodle Soup

As the evenings cool down, a hot bowl of noodles and broth becomes entirely appropriate. Ramen, Pho, braised beef noodle soup…. Simple, satisfying, and exactly what you might need after a long day. The warmth in your hands, the steam rising from the bowl, the comforting familiarity of the flavours hits differently this time of year. Sometimes there’s no need for anything elaborate; a good noodle soup is just perfect for colder nights. Quick, easy, decisive.

3. Game Night

Organise a game night, invite friends, family, or just your flatmates and set up an evening of board games, card games, or trivia. Game nights are an easy way to turn a regular evening into something full of energy. Indoor activities can feel just as exciting as anything outside!

Week 4:

1. Reservation for Dessert

Instead of a full dinner, plan a late-night dessert outing. Go out later in the evening. Skip the usual ice cream or frozen yogurt, think tiramisu, warm pie, or a slice of chocolate cake. Make a reservation or just walk in, enjoy going out for something sweet. Whether it’s with friends or solo, it’s a special way to extend the night, enjoy a treat, and feel the excitement of the last week of October.

2. Halloween Dinner Party

Close out October with a Halloween dinner that’s fun without being over the top. Invite a small group of friends and ask everyone to dress up, masks, hats, or a full costume if they want. Set up with a few candles, a few decorations. The focus is on having fun together: share themed snacks, drinks, take photos, have a costume contest. It’s about capturing the excitement of Halloween while still keeping things relaxed, so you wake up the next day without any hangover or exhaustion. Halloween is the perfect way to close October and mark the start of festivities.

October is your moment to embrace the shift. With only three months left in 2025, it’s a chance to notice what feels good and what you want more of before the year ends. Take what worked in the months behind you, leave what didn’t, and let yourself lean into the energy this month offers.

Maybe that means experimenting with your mornings and nights, trying new recipes, sharing moments with friends, or finding ways to make everyday life feel brighter.

I love love October! Let the last couple weeks of the year be about enjoying warmth, connection, bursts of excitement and feeling cosy.

Autumn energy at its best!

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

I hear you. Sometimes the best weekends aren’t about indulgence or doing it all, they’re about letting things be simple. As much as I love the idea of planning dinners, little outings, or treating myself, sometimes stripping it back and realising that most of what you need for a good weekend is already within reach.

It’s easy to overlook the simple things: a meal made from what’s already in the fridge, an afternoon walk, or re-reading your favourite book. They don’t cost anything, but they give you that same sense of care and enjoyment as the bigger plans.

So this is another kind of weekend guide, a simpler one, meant for when you want to keep things light and uncomplicated. Weekends can still feel full, even when they’re pared down, and you can still enjoy your own company and make the most of your time without feeling drained or overwhelmed.

Friday Night

1. Neighbourhood Walk Reset

Start the weekend by breaking the cycle of sitting indoors all week. Put on sneakers, grab a hot drink from home, and head out for a loop around the neighbourhood. Think of it as creating a clear divide between one part of the week and the next. If you’re planning a quiet weekend, let the walk be your reset. Keep the route loose, wander past the new yoga studio and ask about their timetable, or stop by the restaurant that just opened to peek at the menu and maybe book a table for next week. Twenty minutes or an hour, it doesn’t matter. A little movement, a little fresh air, and surely you start to cut ties with the weekday version of yourself.

2. Set the Mood

Back home, rearrange your space, redecorate to make it more cosy, turn your home into a fresh playground for the weekend. Throw the sheets in the dryer for a few minutes so they’re actually warm when you crawl in later. Raid the kitchen for cinnamon sticks, citrus peels, tea bags, rosemary stems, toss them in a pot of boiling water and let the kitchen smell like you actually live here. Light a candle, open a window, clear the surfaces that have piled up over the week, and shove random papers and clutter into drawers or baskets. Fold laundry, wipe down counters, sweep crumbs off the floor, put things where they belong, or somewhere they don’t make you feel stressed. By doing this Friday night, you’re setting the mood and won’t have to worry about chores when you want to actually take a break.

3. Kitchen Spa Night

Turn the kitchen into your personal weekend lab. Take oats, coffee grounds, and give them a new life. Oats + yogurt + honey into a natural face mask, coffee grounds mixed with a splash of oil for a body scrub. The boiling water with citrus peels, rosemary stems you already have going, lean over the steam, drape a towel over your head, and just breathe. After, smear your makeshift mask on your face, arms, hands. Test the textures, the smells, mix things together, officially turning an ordinary Friday night into a weekend experiment. It’s like those birthday parties at Lush, where you got to create your own face masks and test every shower jelly and bath bomb, except this is at home, just playing with the things you already have!

Saturday

1. Breakfast in the Park

Start Saturday morning by taking whatever you’ve got for breakfast and heading outside. Pack a bowl of cereal, toast and small containers of jam, or even just fruit and yogurt, anything that feels like a treat in the fresh air. Head to a nearby park, a quiet square, or even a bench by the river. Find a spot where you can settle in, spread a cloth or napkin, and make a little scene for yourself. Turn what’s usually an afternoon picnic into a morning ritual. Bring along a notebook to sketch, jot down thoughts. Let it be an excuse to linger over breakfast, even if your usual routine is five minutes at most. Doing something small like this shifts the start of the day entirely and makes ordinary food feel like its own little ceremony.

2. Library Adventure

After breakfast, wander to your local library or a secondhand bookstore. One of the best free ways to spend the morning or afternoon is to make full use of everything these spaces offer. Browse old cookbooks, travel guides, poetry collections, or magazines both new and vintage. Libraries often have chairs by windows, quiet reading rooms, and tucked-away nooks perfect for a few hours of uninterrupted time. Borrow books or movies to take home, or simply settle in and read. Let yourself explore freely, move from section to section, or just sit in a corner with a stack of books. A morning spent this way is a small, free escape, time to explore and discover without spending a cent.

3. Volunteer your Time

Use part of your Saturday to give a little back. You don’t have to think about signing up for a long-term commitment, start with small, immediate ways to help. Drop off old clothes at a donation bin, tidy up a community garden, or water a neighbour’s plants. Lend a book to a friend or leave one in a little free library. Some places might let you help for an hour with simple tasks, like organising shelves or packing donations, ways to get involved without overcommitting. These gestures don’t cost anything but give the day a different rhythm and a sense of contribution. Doing something for someone else, even in tiny ways, turns a regular Saturday into a weekend with purpose, a tiny shift from just filling time to actually shaping it.

4. Pantry Improvisation

This weekend is all about experimenting with what’s already at home. Treat the pantry and fridge like a mystery box challenge, use the ingredients you normally reach for and see what comes together. Chop, mix, roast, or simmer. Follow a recipe loosely, or make one up as you go. Even without following a recipe, this becomes an exercise in improvisation. Spend the time cooking something just for yourself, without needing to hunt down a single fancy ingredient or make a special trip to the store. Whether it turns out familiar, new, or somewhere in between, the process becomes its own reward, a way to pass the time creatively, enjoy being a homebody, and end the day with something satisfying you’ve made from nothing extra.

Sunday: Backwards Day

1. Slow Morning

Sunday mornings don’t need productivity hacks. Begin the day with an episode of your favourite TV show, or the one you’ve been meaning to catch up on. I saw somewhere that watching your favourite show first thing can influence how you feel for the rest of the day, and it makes sense, why wait until night? Pull together whatever breakfast feels right, bring it to bed, the couch, or a cosy corner. Treat Sunday fully like Sunday, the only plan is enjoy breakfast and TV together. This isn’t just a breakfast, it’s a weekend ritual in itself. Even something so simple can completely change how the morning lands, really emphasising a clear difference between the usual weekday start and the beauty of a Sunday.

2. Breakfast for Dinner

Sundays are perfect for flipping the usual routine, and breakfast for dinner is an easy way to make it feel like an event without leaving the house. If the weekend has been deliberately plan-free, keep it that way, but make this meal worth remembering. Pull together whatever breakfast food calls to you: pancakes, scrambled eggs, cereal, a yogurt bowl, or even a toast flight with topping experiments. No schedule, no errands, no expectations, just breakfast at a different hour, fully leaning into a Sunday that’s meant to be stress-free.

3. Sunset Walk

Close out the weekend with something easy. If the weather’s on your side, step outside for a walk to catch the sunset and bring a mug of sleepy tea or even just hot water with lemon, something to sip on. Watching the light change is one of the simplest free activities, but it always feels special. Give yourself the space to let the weekend fade out naturally and by the time you’re back home, the day has closed itself off, and you’re ready for the week ahead without forcing a reset!

When the calendar’s clear and the budget’s closed, the weekend becomes about the simple things. A bowl of cereal at night, a walk at sunset, breakfast on the couch, it’s these unpolished, no-cost ways of spending time that make the days feel intentional as any big plan. Weekends don’t always need indulgence or spending to feel special. Sometimes, it’s the act of noticing what’s already around you and enjoying it fully. The beauty of a no-plans weekend is that it never really feels empty, you’ve already filled it with small rituals that make rest its own kind of event.

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

It’s a strange balance. August feels both endless and way too short. There’s always a quiet urgency, the sense that something’s ending soon, so you should be saying yes to more. But it also holds two energies at once. You could go all out or do absolutely nothing, and either way it would feel right. It’s the part of the year where I appreciate how it doesn’t ask for reinvention.

This is the month I want to savour everything. Doing the most with the least, making a Tuesday feel like a Friday, saying yes to last-minute plans, or spending an entire afternoon by yourself in the best way.

It’s about making the most of what’s left, carrying forward the best parts of the last few months while slowly preparing for the season to change. I want August to feel like a mood board: curated, celebratory, with space for spontaneity and reflection. A toast to what’s been, and an invitation to what’s next.

Celebrate with me, even if it’s not your birth month. Here’s your August map.

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Week 1:

1. Film the Month

There’s always that advice to “be present,” but I find just as much value in capturing a moment, not necessarily for an audience, but for yourself. I love scrolling back through old photos, saved screenshots, and short videos that instantly take me back to a certain headspace. Treat August like a personal documentary. Find your old camcorders, cameras, film your days, your outfits, your walks, what you’re eating, the random little things you’re loving right now. Form a habit for the sake of collecting memories. The thing is, filming your days creates a kind of domino effect. Once you start thinking about what you want to record, you naturally start making things a bit more fun. You say yes to plans more. You put effort into your breakfast, your outfit, your Friday night. Even the idea of filming gives you momentum, you’re not waiting around for something to happen, you’re building it. Making the moment happen, and saving it along the way.

2. Book a Hot Yoga or Sweaty Workout

Start August with a workout that makes you sweat, the kind that leaves your face red, your limbs shaky, but feels so good after. Maybe it’s symbolic, maybe it’s just science, but sweating it out at the beginning of a new month feels like a clean break from anything sluggish or stagnant. A sharp reminder that you’re still in charge of how you move, how you feel, how you start. You don’t need to commit to a whole new fitness plan or suddenly become someone who “loves mornings.” You just need one class on the calendar that you’ll actually show up to. Book it early in the month. Go all in. Let it clear your head and shift your energy. Let it set the tone for how you’re showing up.

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3. The Best Pastry Mission

Turn August into a low-key adventure by setting out to find the best pastry in your city or neighbourhood. Maybe it’s your forever favourite, a new creation spotted on the bakery’s Instagram, or a spot you’ve always walked past and saved in your Notes app, waiting to be tried. Whatever it is, make it your goal to track it down. Walk or cycle there if you can, soak in the atmosphere, and enjoy the anticipation. No pressure to rush, this is about enjoying the search as much as the prize. Once you’ve found your winner, make it a weekly treat for the rest of August. Find your go-to pastry, the one you know will be just as good every time, and turn it into a small, sweet tradition. Bringing it home to enjoy, whether in bed, at your kitchen table, or with a friend. It’s a simple way to add something special to your routine and create moments to look forward to all month long.

Week 2:

1. Create Your Own Charm Bracelet, Necklace, or Anklet

Think of it as your final project of the season, something playful, a little sentimental and nostalgic. Spend a weekend treasure hunting for materials: local markets, tiny boutiques, bead shops, second-hand stores, Look for beads, vintage pendants, or tiny trinkets, collect whatever catches your eye. Maybe each charm ends up representing a dream you’ve had lately, or a place you’ve visited last month. Creating something by hand that holds a memory or just feels nice to wear. You could make it a solo hobby, something to work on across the weeks, or turn it into a fun catch-up plan with friends, an afternoon of snacks, drinks, and crafting. Then keep adding to it through the month. By the end of August, you’ll have a little keepsake that holds pieces of the month. Something sweet and completely personal.

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2. The Best Beach/ Pool/ Lake Day

If you haven’t had the chance to have a proper pool or beach day yet, declare one day this week to fully commit to it. Give it the energy of a mini holiday, even if it’s local. Pick the sunniest day in the forecast and clear your afternoon. I’ve been loving watching Leah (@gleebadoob_) on TikTok, she’s made it her mission to go to the beach every day this summer, and she always brings her signature banana sandwich wrapped to go. So, wake up early, pack a full spread: proper sandwiches, your favourite chips, chilled fruit in a container (watermelon, peaches, or grapes), maybe something homemade, a cookie or a slice of cake. Pack the bag properly: sunscreen, a hat, a hair clip, a book you want to finish, and a speaker. This could be one of the the final few beach or pool days of the season, so make it count and make it the best one yet.

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3. Closet Swap

Start this week by clearing out your wardrobe, not just tossing, but thoughtfully sorting through what no longer serves you. Instead of letting those pieces gather dust or feel wasted, try a smarter approach: create a shared document or chart with a close group of friends (or even your wider circle). Think of it as a virtual closet swap. You list dresses, going-out tops, jackets, anything you’re ready to part with, and your friends do the same. Then, when you want something new to wear, there’s no need to buy it; just borrow or trade from someone else’s list. It’s a clever way to refresh your rotation without the commitment or cost of buying a whole new wardrobe for the new season. And maybe you’ll want to wear that dress again in a year or two, this way, it’s still in the orbit, just living in someone else’s closet for now. There’s something fun and communal about it: what you don’t want anymore might be exactly what someone else is looking for and becomes their new favourite.

Week 3:

Whether or not your actual birthday falls in August, this week is your excuse to live like it does. There’s something about birthday energy that makes everything feel a little more special, the meals, the outfits, the mornings, treating yourself. So even if it’s not technically your day, why not treat it like it is?

1. Do Something a Little Extravagant for Yourself

Receiving a bouquet at your doorstep, addressed to you, feels different than picking one up yourself. It’s a beautifully indulgent reminder that you deserve nice things, even when they’re not from anyone else. So order a bouquet, the kind that arrives perfectly wrapped in brown paper with a handwritten card tucked inside. Maybe it’s a bottle of wine you’ve always wanted to try, or a birthday cake from your favourite bakery, boxed up and ribboned, sent straight to your door. The whole point is that it arrives to you, not as an errand, or treated yourself while out, but because you planned something special for your future self. And especially if it’s your “birthday week” (real or not), you deserve something that makes the day feel a little more elevated. A little more extravagant.

2. Host a Reverse Birthday

You know how kids used to bring cupcakes to class on their own birthdays? I’ve always loved that idea, the generosity of making your day feel like a gift for others, too. Make this week your “reverse birthday.” Bake something simple (your favourite cookies, or matcha rice krispie squares) and wrap them up to share. Hand out little envelopes with pressed flowers, sticker sheets, or a note. Drop them off for friends, neighbours, or coworkers. The charm is in the spontaneity and simplicity, giving something just because. You’ll probably find it’s more fun to put together than you expect. It shifts the usual birthday celebration energy. You end up feeling celebrated in return, even without a reason, maybe just more connected.

3. Create your Own Dinner Party Fantasy

Your something intimate and romantic to end the month. Three or four people you love, invite them over. Maybe you splurge a little and hire a private chef for a few hours (so many do small dinners now, and it feels wildly luxurious to be cooked for in your own home). Or ask a friend who’s secretly an amazing cook to take over the kitchen. Maybe you do it together. Personally, this is exactly how I’d love to spend my birthday, no clubs, no chaos. Just a dinner with the people I love. Good company, a great meal, at home. You don’t have to wait for someone else to throw you a celebration. Just carve out a night that feels good.

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Week 4:

1. Hike it Out

Reaching the end of August, pick a walking trail that feels like a small achievement, just challenging enough, not exhausting. What makes it worthwhile is the reward waiting at the end: a pub, a wine bar, or a cafe where you can unwind properly. The earned pint or basket of hot chips tastes better than usual. Plan it like a standing date with yourself or with someone you want to spend time with. Then you slow down over a long lunch or a drink, soaking in the moment. That walk-and-reward is a simple way to give August a highlight. It’s the kind of day that feels like a win, and one you’ll probably want to repeat.

1. MM6 Maison Margiela x Salomon - Sports Jacket 2. Sporty & Rich - Devi hooded shell jacket 3. Patagonia - Barely Baggies Shorts 4. Salomon - XT-6 rubber-trimmed mesh sneakers

2. Go somewhere with Fairy Floss

Do it while the weather’s still warm and the light stretches into the evening: spend a day at an amusement or theme park. August has that almost-done feeling, like something’s about to end, but not yet. The days still feel long, but you can tell they’re shortening. It makes you want to do something that tips over into a little bit chaotic and also nostalgic. A theme park day suits that energy, loud, fast, sugary, over-the-top in the best way. Make it spontaneous or plan it like an annual tradition. Get the photo on the rollercoaster, share fairy floss, by next month, the season will have already started to shift. But for now, August still lets you get away with days like this. You’ll sleep like a baby that night.

1. Tank Air - Studio Tank 2. Citizens of Humanity - Ines Utility Trouser 3. Madhappy - Hello Kitty Midweight Fleece Hoodie 4. Lexxola - Cami | Tort & Burnt Honey

3. Reflect on Your Summer

What were the highlights of your summer?

Were there any bucket list items you changed your mind about along the way?

Did you check off the things you set out to do this summer?

What’s something you didn’t do that you still want to make time for?

What are you still craving more of?

What did you learn about yourself these past few months?

4. Change of Season Reset

September is around the corner. So shift the atmosphere. Find a new candle, refresh your space, swap your sheets. Buy fresh flowers, clear out the surfaces that feel cluttered. Maybe even move the furniture around just slightly, enough to make the familiar feel different again. Write out some September intentions or start a list of things you want to do in September.

1. Hommey - Quilt Cover | Mulberry / Aster 2. Tekla - Percale Duvet Cover | Hopper Stripes 3. Soho Home - Harlyn Check-Pattern Blanket 4. Diptyque - Tubereuse Candle

August asks us to lean fully into the moment, holding the season’s end with equal parts celebration and calm. It’s a month that reminds me there’s richness in savouring the ordinary, and excitement in small, deliberate choices.

It’s about carving out space for what feels good, creating memories that stick, and slowly turning the page toward what’s next.

So whether you’re celebrating your birthday like me, chasing down your favourite pastry, or simply taking a moment to reflect on the summer behind you, I hope August leaves you feeling a little fuller, a little lighter, and quietly ready for whatever comes next.

Celebrate it well. You deserve it.

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

If there’s one thing the wellness world agrees on, it’s the power of a solid morning routine. But for me, it’s the evening that really sets the tone, evenings that matter the most. I like the feeling of slowly winding down and putting things in order.

This week’s post is something a little more personal. My night routine has always been a mix of what I genuinely enjoy, candles, matching pyjamas, good simple skincare, but it’s also shaped by Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), which has been part of my life for as long as I can remember.

Whenever we’re settled in one place for a while, the first thing we do is find a local Chinese medicine doctor, whether it’s for herbal formulas, acupuncture, or Tuina (a Chinese bodywork therapy that stimulates energy flow by combining massage, acupressure, and joint manipulation to help rebalance the body’s physical and energetic systems).

In TCM, sleep is everything. It’s when your qi restores, your body rebalances, and your nervous system finally gets to exhale. I’ve picked up so many little rituals and habits that I now can’t imagine going to bed without. They’ve helped me not only sleep deeper but also stay consistent in other areas of my life, too.

Here’s everything I’ve been doing, loving, and reaching for lately, some directly rooted in TCM practices. A full night routine to help you end your day with more care and calm.

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This list is for that version of you. It doesn’t always need to make sense to feel good.

The only plan? To make the most of it. The sun, the late nights, the energy spike that only comes from warmth hitting skin. This is for the weeks that feel like they’re flying, for weekends that should feel like you want to repeat next weekend, swimsuits under clothes, new routines, perfectly chilled rose, and a running list of ideas that could make a season feel full.

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1. Book a court. Play tennis.

In honour of Wimbledon, this summer calls for tennis whites, a good sweat, chilled water bottles, and post-game gossip on a shady bench. You don’t need a perfect serve, just show up in something that makes you feel like you walked off Centre Court. Grab a friend and rally, or play a very unserious match. Even just hitting balls back and forth counts. You’ll feel sporty, social, and like you're on the set of Challengers, minus the drama and love triangle.

2. Romanticise the art of the late dinner.

Make the sun your dinner bell. There’s something luxurious about letting the evening unfold slowly, the way it does in cities where no one eats before 8pm. Skip the rushed weekday stir-fry and let dinner be the main event. Set the table. Open a bottle. Cook something that smells good and takes time. Or assemble a cold plate and pretend it’s intentional. Let yourself sink into the hours that usually fly by. One candle lit is enough to make it feel like a scene. Maybe dinner doesn’t start until 9pm and maybe that’s the whole point.

3. Learn to grill one thing really well.

Be that person who always has a summer BBQ trick. Corn with chilli oil, haloumi skewers, grilled peaches drizzled in honey. Just find your signature and make it known. Be the person who brings something hot off the grill without needing a recipe. It’s casual mastery. You don’t need a backyard or a Weber. Even a stovetop grill pan counts. Cook it until it smells like summer and you feel proud handing it to someone else or plating it just for you.

4. Make a summer photo dump album.

Think of it like a digital scrapbook, no captions, no editing, no worrying about which five slides fit best. Just the photos that feel good to look back on. It’s easy to forget how many little things made you smile until your camera roll surprises you months later, mid-scroll or in a memory pop-up. You don’t need to post it. Or maybe you will, casually and out of order, sometime next year. For now, it’s just an archive of what summer 25’ looked like in your life, exactly as it happened.

5. Keep a gratitude list, but make it hot.

This isn’t about having a journaling practice or sticking to a morning routine. It’s more about noticing things in real time and writing them down before the moment slips away. The kinds of notes that won’t make sense to anyone else, “perfect peaches,” “my bikini is so cute”, yes, all valid. Gratitude doesn’t need to sound profound. Sometimes the most grounding thing is a list that reads like a group chat message to yourself: sweet, pointless, oddly comforting. Store it in your Notes app or on the back of a receipt, it doesn’t matter. What matters is that you caught the good stuff while it was happening.

6. Party tricks.

Learn to do something slightly unnecessary and deeply satisfying, turning the ordinary into a party trick. Maybe learning how to shuck an oyster or freezing lemon slices into oversized ice cubes. Both are more about the performance than perfection. The towel, the twist of the wrist, the clink of a shell giving way. Or pulling out a tray of oddly shaped cubes and dropping them into a glass like you’re hosting something. Little moments that make regular days feel hosted, like you're the main character of a summer dinner scene.

7. Try an open-air workout.

Courtyard pilates in your favourite set. Dance cardio on a patch of grass with your headphones in. A sunset run or jog. It’s not about being ‘fit for summer’, it’s about moving in ways that feel fun and low-stakes. Even a stretch on your rooftop, movement feels different when the air’s warm and the light is still hanging around at 7pm. The kind of afternoon that makes you feel like you live in a movie, or at the very least, your dream version of an ad for mineral sunscreen.

8. Watch a summer sports final like it’s the Oscars.

Even if you haven’t been keeping track, pick a day and tune in for the final of something big; Wimbledon, the Euros, even a F1 race. It’s like inserting a mini event, something to mark time, build around, and maybe even plan a meal or outfit for. This is peak season for turning passive watching into a full-day affair. So clear your afternoon, stream the match with snacks lined up like it’s a major event (because it is), and let it be the thing you rally your weekend around.

9. Find your ‘lake swim’ equivalent.

Not everyone lives near a lake, but everyone deserves something that mimics the feeling of one: a full-body exhale, a step outside the loop of your usual day. Maybe it’s actually swimming, or maybe it’s buying a drink from the same place every Saturday and taking the long way home. It could be taking your shoes off at the park and sitting in the sun for an hour, or doing your hair before a solo grocery run. This is a repeatable kind of joy, your own personal version of jumping into cool water.

10. Watch a movie outdoors.

Doesn’t need to be an official screening or even a projector moment with a crowd. It can be your laptop on a balcony, a backyard setup with a blanket and speakers, or just your phone propped up in a patch of grass with good data. Pick a movie that suits the mood, something you’ve seen before and love, or something new. Cold fruit, popcorn in a real bowl, a glass of something chilled. Add a blanket if it’s late or just wear something you’d lounge in all day. Watching a film in open air turns something ordinary into an almost holiday-like moment.

11. Join a book club with people you don’t know (yet).

Not every plan needs to revolve around drinks or dinner. A book club is a great way to meet new people in Summer and talk about something that doesn’t require small talk. Find one through a local bookstore, a library, or even online, where you can lurk until you’re ready to contribute. You might not finish the book, but you’ll leave with new recs, a bit of structure, and someone’s oddly specific take on the ending. Kind of exciting inserting a new kind of conversation into your life with new friends.

12. Spend a slow morning in bed with an excellent book, iced coffee, and the fan blowing.

No scrolling, no pressure. Just full permission to stay horizontal. The kind of morning that recalibrates you even though nothing really happens. You’ll look back on it like a highlight. The trick is remembering to make space for it in the first place.

13. Solo long lunch.

Summer is made for long lunches, those unhurried, lingering meals that stretch lazily from midday well into the golden glow of late afternoon. It’s a meal that feels less like a task and more like an experience, where time becomes optional and the only plan is to enjoy each bite, each laugh, and the slow unfolding of the day. Summer lunches are a chance to reconnect with friends or spend time in your own company with good food, and with the kind of easy, unforced joy that only a warm afternoon can bring.

14. Throw a garden-ish party (even if you don’t have a garden).

You don’t need a lawn, just sunlight and somewhere to sit. A table on the balcony, a picnic blanket in the park, the best company. Strawberries on a plate. Ham-and-cheese sandwiches cut into triangles like it’s your fifth birthday. Fairy bread if you're feeling nostalgic. Store-bought cake and a bag of party mix. The best low-key plan enjoyed once again outside in warm weather.

15. Go perfume shopping.

Find your “scent of the season”. Try only the ones that smell like bare skin after a swim, crushed citrus, sea salt, or how you imagine your summer alter ego would smell. Ask for tester cards. Walk around holding them like receipts from the best version of your day. Spritz your wrist and check in every hour like it’s a little science experiment. Maybe you’ll go back for the bottle next week.

16. Rent something.

Pick something that doesn’t belong to your usual life. Whether it’s renting a convertible for the day, borrowing a Vespa, or trying a paddleboard or even a kayak. Your activity of the day planned. This might require a bit of coordination or commitment but will give you a memory you’ll bring up all year. Even if it’s just an afternoon. Drive with the roof down, paddle until your arms ache, that shift in perspective, the slow settling of your mind, the simple joy of moving in a way that’s different. The best parts of summer are the ones that feel slightly out of character.

17. Do a proper pantry clear-out and refill with summer snacks.

Edit your pantry like it’s getting its seasonal wardrobe change. Swap out the heavy, wintry jars and tired condiments for the things you’d actually want to eat in hot weather, standing in front of the fridge at 3pm. Think: crispbread, salty tinned fish, pickles, kombucha, canned peaches, fizzy drinks, popcorn, gummy lollies. Refill it like you’re prepping for a houseguest you want to impress. When you open the pantry, it should feel like peeking into a really well-stocked Airbnb kitchen, the kind that makes you feel like you’re on holiday, even if you’re still at home.

18. Try every frozen novelty at your local dairy.

Start with the classics: Paddle Pop, Cyclone, Trumpets, drumsticks, fudgsicle. Move on to the more niche options, Asian jelly sticks, gelato bars, anything that looks a little too fluorescent to be real. Make it a personal challenge or a tier list with a friend. Treat each one like fine dining. Make even your snack choices feel like a series.

19. Host a “hot girl groceries” potluck.

Invite your friends to bring one item from their current grocery obsession. Maybe someone brings olives, someone else has baby cucumbers and whipped feta, another shows up with smoked trout in beautiful packaging. Add matcha jellies, fancy lemonade, glossy heirloom tomatoes, fresh sourdough, pickled things, fizzy things. A mood board you can eat.

20. Go to a live music night.

Could be jazz in the park, a cover band at the pub, or a friend-of-a-friend’s set in someone’s backyard. Music playing somewhere that isn’t your headphones or your kitchen speaker. Go with a friend or walk by yourself. Sit for a bit, order a drink if you feel like it, and let it be something to fill the evening. No ticket, no real plan, just the kind of evening that reminds you this season doesn’t need much. There shouldn’t be pressure to stay long or know the setlist, just a reason to be outside, hearing something you didn’t plan on. Sometimes that’s all it takes to make the day feel different.

Summer’s really just about those simple moments that stick with you, easy and good. No need to overthink it. Just try a few things from the list, or your own version, and see what feels right. It’s the best season for making space for the days that remind you why summer hits different.

And if you're reading this from the Southern Hemisphere, I feel you. Just mentally flip Winter to Summer, that’s what I’m doing 🥲, escaping the cold mentally. Pretend this list works globally… (And maybe a winter one’s coming too?)

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

This is a list of five layered scent combinations built from the shower up that go beyond a single bottle of perfume. Creating a scent that sticks with you, from clean skin to clothes to sheets. Fragrance that lingers, without being too sickly, nauseating, or strong.

Some of these combinations are things I’ve smelled and tested together over time. Others are borrowed, secret routines shared by people who always seem to smell really, really good. A mix of body washes, creams, hair mists and perfumes that come together in ways that feel deliberate but low effort. When they work, they really work.

The layering is what makes it feel expensive, familiar, a little addictive. Think: shower gels that smell like chilled fruit, body creams that melt in like vanilla milk, perfumes that pull it all together without overpowering anything. Combinations that smell like caramel milkshake on warm skin or fresh laundered shirts dried in the sun. Shower to skin to signature.

Sun-drenched Long Afternoon Nap

To embody the essence of a peaceful, sunlit afternoon, begin with the Salt & Stone Bergamot & Hinoki body wash. Its fresh, citrusy top notes of bergamot, combined with the grounding, herbal hinoki and eucalyptus base note, evoke the sensation of a gentle breeze through open windows. Then, layer on Josie Maran Whipped Argan Oil Body Butter, not for scent, but for its silky, nourishing texture that leaves your skin feeling smooth, hydrated, and naturally glowing; the perfect base to help everything else blend beautifully and last longer. Follow with Phlur Somebody Wood fragrance. The bright bergamot and lemon top notes transition into a heart of jasmine, saffron, and cyclamen, settling into a base of sandalwood, vanilla, musk, amber, moss, and cedar-wood. This combination creates a scent that's both fresh and warm, intimate and inviting and matches beautifully with the shower gel. Mist Ceremonia Guava Hair Mist through your hair, its subtle, fruity aroma adds a playful, tropical lift, enhancing the overall freshness without overpowering the other notes. Together, these layers create an inviting, cosy scent that feels like a long, restful nap in the sun, soft, natural, and effortlessly radiant.

Honourable mentions:

1. Caudile - Thé des Vignes Shower Gel 2. Kora Organics - Renewing Hand & Body Wash 3. Costa Brazil - Kaya Jungle Firming Body Oil

Laundered Whites Dried Under the Sun

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I like Sundays because I can stay in bed for as long as I want and not feel bad about it. I can make pancakes at 1pm. I can wear my pjs around the house all day. I can call my call my long-distance friends, clean out my skincare drawer, or do absolutely nothing and still feel like I had a good day.

There’s no pressure to go out, but if I do, it’s for something simple like picking up a croissant or standing in my friend's kitchen while she makes tea. Some Sundays feel like skincare and changing your sheets. Others feel like eating cake out of the container and never taking your robe off. Both are valid. Both are iconic.

This post isn’t really a guide, and it’s definitely not a routine. It’s just a list of very Sunday-ish things. Stuff I do, or want to do, or keep meaning to do. The kind of things that make me love this day for what it is. Just a nice day to exist.

The Sunday Breakfast

Sundays are for the breakfasts you think about mid-week and never make. I’m a breakfast person through and through. French toast with a fruity compote, a decadent pancake stack, soft scrambled eggs with thick slices of toast from the bakery. It’s always something warm. Always eaten in pyjamas. Sometimes in bed, sometimes standing at the bench. Or actually out at your favourite cafe for some eggs Benedict. There’s no structure to it. Just make whatever you feel like, go wherever you feel like, when you feel like it. Sometimes it’s sweet, sometimes it’s savoury, sometimes it’s both. Maybe a frothy coffee on the side. Something playing in the background so it doesn’t feel like a routine.

Slow Mornings

Sundays are made for waking up without an alarm and taking your time actually getting out of bed. A proper sleep-in without guilt. A morning that isn’t dictated by to-do lists or pressure to jump up early or start a morning routine. Maybe that means scrolling on your phone for a bit or lying there thinking about the day ahead without stressing about it. When it’s time to get ready, there’s no rush. Again, getting ready isn’t a routine today, skincare gets done properly because there’s time, you might try on three outfits before landing on your old hoodie, sometimes it’s just about feeling put together for yourself after a week that probably asked for too much. This slow, no-pressure getting-ready process is what makes Sundays feel different. No schedules, no expectations, just the simple joy of moving through the morning on your own terms.

1. Deiji Studios - Linen Pajama Set 2. Polo Ralph Lauren - Madison Teddy Bear Stripe Pajama Set 3. Doen - Orelle Nightgown

1. Alessi - La Cupola induction espresso coffee maker 2. 101 Copenhagen - Native tea set (set of three) 3. Heaven Mayhem - Peace of Mind Journal

Farmers Market

Sundays are for walking through the farmers market even if there’s nothing needed, even if the fridge is already full. Showing up with a coffee in hand, weaving through the crowds. The same stalls are always there. The fruit stand with those tiny paper sample cups. Dogs tied loosely to poles. The sourdough table where the line’s always too long. The man selling dips, shouting about his beetroot hummus. Sometimes it’s just about being there, it’s just one of those things that makes the morning feel more complete, like time has passed in a nice way. Noticing the bags people carry, standing in front of the pastry display for ten minutes before deciding on a croissant that gets eaten half on the spot, half on the walk home. Letting the morning exist around you, where the air smells like coffee and baked goods and everyone seems to be in a good mood.

1. Lie Studio - The Bianca Raffia Bag Large 2. Anine Bing - Lara Tote 3. Clare V - Summer Simple Tote

Baking a Nostalgic Treat (and sharing it)

Sundays and baking go hand in hand. Maybe it’s something simple that reminds you of childhood, a lolly cake, a Boston bun with too much pink icing. It gives the afternoon some shape when there’s nothing else planned. It fills the house with warmth. It keeps your hands busy without needing much thought. It’s calm and quiet in a way the rest of the week sometimes rarely is. I love the feeling of putting something in the oven and knowing you’ll come back to it later, taking it out and letting it cool on the bench, having a treat for the rest of the week ahead.

Or once it’s done, wrap some up and go see someone. Bring it to your family and stay for an hour. Sit on the couch. Eat a piece together in the kitchen. If home’s further away, pack a few slices and drop them off to a friend. A Sunday kind of delivery.

1. Furbish Studio - Ambroeus Oven Mitt 2. Great Jones - Beyond Measure Duo 3. Dusen Dusen - Short Striped Canister 4. Vaisselle Baby - Baby Cakes Cake Stand

Watching a Comfort Movie or Show

Sundays are for putting on something easy. It could be a show you’ve already watched a dozen times, a movie you know by heart, the feeling of having something familiar there with you, to lighten your mood, or unwind. Maybe it’s a cooking show while you tidy up, or a film you like to have on while you’re stretched out on the couch or bed with a blanket, a snack nearby, the curtains half drawn. Comfort watching never needs to be justified. To press play on a familiar comfort because it matches the mood of doing nothing. Creating a cosy atmosphere where it makes the late afternoon feel less like the weekend is ending, and more like the best part of it is still happening.

Comfort Hobbies

Sundays are for pulling out the things you never get around to during the week. Picking up a half-finished or starting a new knitting project and doing a few rows while something plays in the background. Doodling in the margins of a notebook. Flicking through an old magazine and tearing out pages you like. Pulling out a book you’ve started but haven’t touched in days and reading one chapter. These are the kinds of things that fall to the side during the week, but make sense again on a Sunday. Turning off your brain for a bit and letting the afternoon settle into a different kind of pace. There’s comfort in the rhythm, in the texture, in doing something just for the feeling of it. The feeling of making time for something quiet, even if you don’t get very far. Some Sundays that means picking up where you left off. Other times it’s starting from scratch. Either way, it’s about making space for the small things that don’t usually get time.

Everything Shower

Sundays are for the kind of shower you actually plan your afternoon around. Not a quick rinse, not just shampoo and out. The full thing. A proper, full reset. The one where you exfoliate, shave, wash your hair, leave a treatment in, maybe do a mask after. You put on a playlist or a podcast. You take your time. The whole bathroom gets steamy, your towel’s clean, extra soft. Fresh pyjamas after. Maybe body oil, then thick body lotion to lock it all in. Hair wrapped up in a towel while you wander around the house. If the week felt chaotic, this is the part that makes you feel like a human again. A nice way to land back in your body, a nice reset before Monday starts asking for too much again.

1. Sol de Janeiro - Beija Flor Renewing Body Wash 2. Tree Hut - Shea Sugar Scrub 3. Necessaire - The Body Lotion 4. Eocean - Shower Lamp Waterproof

Go to Bed Early

Sundays are for going to bed early without making it a whole thing. No “starting the week strong” energy, no need to journal or reflect or set intentions. Just getting into bed a little earlier than usual, because you can, because it feels good. Fresh sheets if you remembered. A cup of tea if you feel like one. Winding down without trying to squeeze in anything else. No urge to scroll until midnight, no pressure to be productive until the last second of the weekend. The week will start when it starts. There’s nothing else that needs doing. Sunday ends with rest.

1. Silk - Silk Contour Sleep Mask 2. Loops - Dream Sleep Slugging Mask 5 Pack 3. This Works - Deep Sleep Body Whip

There’s no one way to spend a Sunday. Some weekends feel full and some feel empty. But your version of comfort can make a day feel like time was well spent. It’s not getting organised or starting the week strong. It’s not about being productive or intentional or any of those words that get thrown around too much. Give yourself the kind of day that make Sunday feel like Sunday, not a countdown to Monday.

I’d love every Sunday to look like this.

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

This round is fully beauty-focused: skincare, body care, haircare, and a few extras I’ve been circling lately. I’ve also included a handful of finds that could work for the men in your life, whether it’s something for your brother, boyfriend, dad, or husband (or honestly, just you).

Everything here has been pulled from open tabs, saved folders, and the kinds of deep dives I always end up in. Each one caught my attention, maybe it was a standout ingredient list, a raving review, or packaging I loved at first sight.

This edition is for anyone who finds joy in the scroll. It’s less about must-haves, more about small discoveries and slow browsing. Come back to this post anytime you're in the mood to discover something new and tell me what you add to cart!

Skincare

1. Dam Dam Tokyo - Paradisi Hydrating Essence Mist

Part essence, part setting spray, this fine mist is designed to replenish skin throughout the day without disrupting what’s underneath. The formula pairs a refreshing water base with rice oil for added hydration, offering a soft boost of moisture that doesn’t overwhelm. Seems perfect for travel or touch-ups.

Pros:

• Lightweight but nourishing

• Rice oil offers hydration without heaviness

• Mist is ultra-fine and makeup-friendly

• Skin feels refreshed, not stripped

• Minimal packaging

Customer review:
"It contains oil, so it's super moisturising! It comes in mist form and can be sprayed evenly on the face. It leaves my skin feeling great."

2. Foile - Deep Blue C Cream

An ultra-nourishing cream designed to brighten and defend. This is one of those Vitamin C moisturisers that feels like skincare and self-care in one: rich but wearable, layered with antioxidants like Cacao, CoQ10, and Blackcurrant Seed to shield skin from daily stressors. The texture is smooth, the glow is real, and the packaging looks like it belongs on the top shelf, so gorgeous!

Pros:

• Vitamin C-powered for brightening and antioxidant protection

• Creamy but not heavy, ideal for daily wear

• CoQ10 and Blackcurrant Seed support skin resilience

• Elevates any routine with premium feel and aesthetic

• Works beautifully under SPF or makeup

Customer review:

“This moisturiser is a lovely texture, rich but not too heavy. Easy to wear during the day, and the packaging is stunning. So premium. Nothing else like this out there.”

3. Biologique Recherche - L’Eauxygénante

A fresh, hydrating mist that doubles as an oxygen boost for your skin. Packed with Vitamins A and C from orange and kiwi cells, plus edelweiss extract to fight free radicals, this mist helps brighten your complexion and gives your makeup extra staying power. There’s also cucumber and silk for that soothing touch, making it a perfect pick-me-up throughout the day.

Pros:

• Brightens and refreshes skin

• Great for sensitive skin

• Soothing and calming ingredients

• Subtle, uplifting scent

Customer review:

“I get facials regularly at my local salon, and my esthetician always finishes with this mist. I finally bought it for myself, and honestly, it brightens and freshens my face all day, especially when I’m bare-faced. A little burst of ‘awake’ whenever I need it.”

4. Reome Active Recovery Broth

This concentrated, micro-fine serum is a powerhouse blend of clinically proven bio-ferments and nine biomimetic actives. It’s designed to combat long-term skin stress, repair your skin barrier, and boost cellular activity, revealing brighter, healthier, and plumper skin. Suitable for all skin types, it’s a perfect reset for tired, stressed complexions.

Pros:

• Lightweight, fast-absorbing texture

• Repairs and strengthens skin barrier

• Brightens and hydrates

• Helps improve skin texture and scarring

• Suitable for all skin types

Customer review:

“This serum has such a beautiful, lightweight texture! It’s visibly improved my skin, helping with scarring and leaving it much more hydrated.”

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Your feed is about to flood with Aperol and Hugo spritzes on Mediterranean terraces. Whether you’re zipping up a suitcase for your Euro summer debut, staying put to soak up June in your hometown or working away, this is still your official invite to lean into the season. To feel like you’re part of the fun, the romance, the easy-going magic of being overseas… no matter where you are. No FOMO allowed.

Welcome to the Wherever-You-Are “Summer” Club, a soft, bright, and slightly indulgent fantasy designed to make this month feel like a celebration. Six months deep into 2025, it’s time to savour every warm morning, every chilled evening, every moment in between.

Each week is its own little chapter, a mix of prepping for what’s next, slipping into play mode, and finding those sweet, unexpected ways to turn an ordinary day into something special. This June, we’re chasing that glow early and holding onto it all month long.

A month of feeling full, flirty, and fresh.

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Week 1: Setting the Mood

1. Clean Sweep: Reset

Start with the basics, change your sheets, refresh your bedding, and give every surface a quick reset. Wipe down counters, tidy drawers, clear out your fridge, and take note of anything that’s expired or out of place, especially in your bathroom or pantry. Refill anything that’s running low, fold away laundry properly, and get rid of clutter that’s built up without you noticing. If you’re going away, this kind of organisation makes a huge difference when you return. Even if you’re staying put, it resets the energy of a space and gives you clarity for the weeks ahead. Finish by lighting a clean-scented candle, something with citrus, basil, or neroli and enjoy the lightness of a space that’s been tended to. It’s a simple, sensory way to make your home feel like a fresh start and a place ready for long, golden days.

1. Inka Arthouse - Ladies & Pasta 1939 Italy 2. Tekla - Percale Duvet Cover | Shaded Yellow 3. Hommey - Fitted Sheet | Cloud 4. Roomie - Duvet Cover | Iced Matcha

2. Shower like You’re Rinsing off the Sea

Turn your daily shower into a mini ritual that transports you to a sun-drenched beach. Stock up on products with salty, citrusy, or herbal scents, think sea salt scrubs, lemon-infused body washes, or rosemary shampoos that remind you of coastal breezes. After your shower, spritz your hair with sea mist for that effortless, just-stepped-off-the-boat look, tousled and fresh. Take this moment a step further by introducing a light, citrusy body oil or lotion into your morning or evening routine. Layer a little fragrance if you like, a bit on the backs of your knees, your collarbones, behind your ears, something clean and barely-there that stays with you. Throw on a loose t-shirt, a stripped shirt, a linen robe. It’s a small way to step back into yourself and feel a little more awake, like you’ve just stepped out of somewhere quiet and breezy.

1. Melissa Odabash - Louisa Printed Robe 2. Philosophy - Iced Mint Lemonade 3. Korres - Body Smoothing Milk | Basil Lemon 4. Bastide - Neroli Lumiere Eau de Toilette

3. Invest in One Hot Item

Choose one piece that just feels right for the season and makes you feel confident. Something you’ve been eyeing but waiting for the right time. Maybe it’s a lemon-printed skirt, a sleek bikini, or a pair of gold hoops, a red hoodie, lounge shorts. Something that gives you that extra bit of excitement when you put it on and instantly lifts your mood and makes you want to soak up the sun, even if it’s just in your backyard or running errands. Treat yourself, your special piece and souvenir for the this season, this month, the start of the second half of 2025. Hang it somewhere visible, like you would in a boutique holiday rental, on the back of a door or by your mirror so it catches your eye every day. Let it remind you of how you want to feel this month: relaxed, confident, carefree.

1. Dairy Boy - The Fishermans Daughter Sweater 2. Brigitte - Lemon Print Bikini Set 3. Bode - Lucky Baby Scalloped Embroidered Cotton Poplin Shorts 4. Staud - Staudines Tin Clutch

Week 2: Play and Explore

1. Host Your Own Summer Picnic

Pick a nearby park, rooftop, backyard, or even your own balcony and set up a spread that channels the feeling of a European market haul. Think fresh sourdough, baguette, ripe tomatoes, salty cheese, olives, peaches, little tins of fish, a bottle of something cold, wine, sparkling water, lemonade in a glass bottle. Set a loose dress code, even if it’s just for yourself. Linen, something soft and breezy, sunglasses even if it’s overcast. Bring a checked towel or an old sheet, mismatched plates, napkins. Whether you’re solo, with a friend, or pulling together a few people last minute, create a space to pause, sprawl, nibble and talk. Take action on how you vision and manifest your June to be.

1. La Jambu - Large Green Gingham and Ruffle Tablemats 2. La Jambu - Circus Napkins 3. In the Round House - Lemon & Blue Stripe Cutlery Set 4. Sunday Supply Co. - Vista Beach Mat

2. Find Your Spot

Make it your mission this month to discover a wine bar, teahouse, cafe, anywhere with good drinks and even better mood lighting that you can keep coming back to, whether you're at home or overseas. Somewhere small, ideally walkable, with a bit of character. Maybe it has a hand-scrawled chalkboard menu, a fridge stocked with unfamiliar labels, or a bartender who always recommends something you wouldn’t have picked yourself. Maybe you sit outside with a book. Maybe you take a friend and split a snack you’ve never tried and you end up coming back the next Friday, and the one after that. The most comforting feeling is knowing you have a place that always hits, a familiar corner to return to. It’s a way of building your own sense of belonging, even if you're far from home. Creating a tiny home scene for yourself in a new city, or feeling more connected to your own neighbourhood.

3. Start a “Summer” Friday Habit

Let your Fridays carry a different kind of energy this month. Even if you're working a full schedule, pick one small thing to do every Friday that shifts you out of autopilot and into a slower, more playful mood. Maybe it’s an iced tea evening walk, an afternoon swim, picking up fresh flowers from a market stall on your way home. It doesn’t need to be a whole plan. You might be packing for a trip, wrapping up deadlines, or just heading into a regular weekend but the habit stays the same. It’s about creating your special day, one that makes space for summer to feel like summer, even if you’re still in the middle of the city.

1. Salomon - Womens Xt 6 | Mahogany Rose / Earth Brown / Flamingo Pink 2. Lido - Uno Striped Swimsuit 3. Sporty & Rich x Adidas Originals | Adizero Adios OG - White/Navy 4. Special Studio - Lulu Planter Small

Week 3: Your Summer Table, Wherever You Are

1. Tomato Dinner Night

Pick a night, clear your evening, and make tomatoes the main event. Think plump heirlooms, cherry tomatoes in every shade, or sun-dried ones if you like a punchier flavour. Slice the heirlooms thick and lay them on your nicest plate. Drizzle with good olive oil, scatter with flaky salt, cracked pepper, and torn basil, then pair with sourdough. Add a ball of creamy burrata or buffalo mozzarella in the middle if you’re feeling extra. If you’re in the mood to cook, blister sun gold cherry tomatoes in butter until they burst into a silky pasta sauce (I love adding a teaspoon of miso paste). It’s casual, a little messy, and absolutely tastes like summer.

1. Wishbone Kitchen by ‘Sungold Tomato Pasta’

2. Justine’s Snacks by ‘Single Tomato Tarts’

2. Mix Your Signature Summer Drink

Every good summer deserves its own drink. Choose one evening this week to experiment with something that feels like summer in a glass. Maybe it’s sparkling water with lemon slices and elderflower cordial, or prosecco poured over peach slices and torn mint. Try kombucha on crushed ice with cucumber and lime, or invent something entirely with whatever’s on hand. Pour it into your favourite glass and
by the end of the month, you’ll have your go-to, the drink you start offering to friends, the one that tastes like this exact time of year. A little tradition to return to, summer after summer.

1. Maison Balzac - 2 Black Bow Coupes 2. Sophie Lou Jacobsen - Totem Glasses 3. Kip & Co. - Dreamy Tumbler Glass 6P Set 4. Anthropologie - Donna Highball Glasses

3. Gelato-Inspired Dessert Night

One night this week, to romanticise your usual sweet treat o’clock. Think affogato: a shot of hot espresso poured over your favourite vanilla ice cream (a splash of Frangelico never hurts). Or blend up a quick sorbet from frozen peaches and honey, topped with fresh vanilla cream. Try yogurt bark with berries and crushed pistachios, or just chill some ripe fruit and serve it with a spoonful of cream and a pinch of flaky yuzu salt. Scoop it into your prettiest bowls, take it to the couch, the balcony, or out on a walk in a keep-cup. Let it feel like the final scene of a day well spent, people watch away and enjoy your summer inspired sweet treat.

1. Fazeek - Cube Sundae Glass and Spoon Pink Blue 2. Softedge Studio - Side Bowl | Tomato 3. Anthropologie - The Latte Stoneware Cereal Bowls 4. Alessi - Big Love Ice Cream Bowl

Week 4: Make It Count

1. Create a Movie Moment This Week

June might be shaping up to be a busy month, and you know the weeks will fly by. So, plan something now even if it’s small but meaningful. Maybe it’s catching a late-night movie, biking to the beach at golden hour, dining at a rooftop restaurant, camping/ glamping, booking a long weekend trip and hiking. Mark it in your calendar like a standing date with yourself. Something about knowing this special moment is coming three weeks ahead that makes it sweeter when it finally arrives. Think of it as giving the month an anchor, a memory to hold onto. Even one single day like this can become a beautiful, core memory, your highlight of June.

1. Doen - Almadia Crochet-Trimmed Ramie Mini Dress | The perfect piece for golden hour bike rides, rooftop restaurants, weekend brunch

2. Citizens of Humanity - Winslow Low Rise Boyfriend Jeans | Your wear-everywhere, feel-good denim made for spontaneous detours and everyday adventures

3. Patagonia - Retro Pile Fleece Jacket | For late-night adventures or early morning road trips, this fleece is your cosy, go-anywhere sidekick

4. Osprey - Hikelite 18L Unisex Lightweight Daypack | For trails, city wandering, or beach days….

2. Save Something from June

This month will come and go like all the others. But what if you could hold onto one tangible piece of it? Choose something simple: a photo you love but never posted (print it out), a scribbled thought saved in your Notes app (write it out on paper and keep it somewhere special), or even a receipt from your favourite cafe you visited again and again. Put it in a 2025 memory box or tuck it away somewhere. Let it be a low-effort time capsule, something your future self can stumble across.

3. Mid Year Reflection

Think back on the past few weeks, what surprised you?

What made you feel most like yourself?

What moments felt full, or slow?

Reflect on June?

What are you craving more of?

Plans/ goals for July? Gently set a loose intentions for July!

June is your moment to reset. You’ve made it halfway through 2025. That’s something worth pausing for. Take what worked from the first six months, leave what didn’t, and let yourself start again.

Maybe that means romanticising your daily routine, booking a trip, rearranging your space, or simply making space for new things to come in.

I love June, I think it’s the perfect month to rewrite the mood, check in with personal goals, and take action for what the next half of the year could manifest into.

Let the next few weeks be about creating new memories, collecting beautiful moments. Wherever you are, your summer state of mind can start this month!

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx

This guide isn’t about escaping your routine but reimagining it. Infusing your day with beauty, mood, and play. Whether it’s a 3PM check-in with yourself, a Kyoto-inspired morning, or pouring a fizzy welcome drink at home just because it’s all about creating small moments that feel like a treat. Your daily escape, right where you are to take a moment to refocus and give yourself time and space.

1. The Welcome Drink Rule

Treat the afternoon like you’ve just arrived somewhere and being offered a drink, not because you need one, but because it’s a gesture. A reset. A signal that you’ve entered a different atmosphere. Hotels do this well. Restaurants too. A version of you freshly checked in, even if it’s just from your desk to the couch. Around 4PM, when the day starts to dip and your focus wavers, the emails have been sent, lunch has passed, and the last stretch of the day is ahead. Before pushing through it like it’s something to conquer, stop and pour yourself something that marks the transition. Sparkling water with bitters and a slice of orange. Cold-brew tea in a wine glass. A glass of wine. This is punctuation in your day. A small but definite pause that makes the hours feel less like a straight line.

2. Check-In Time is 3PM (for Yourself)

Set an alarm for 3PM, not for a meeting, not a reminder, just a quiet check-in. A moment to ask: how am I doing? Not in a big-picture way, but just right now. Do I need a snack, a stretch, a walk around the block? Is the lighting too harsh? Would changing clothes help me feel like I’ve entered a new chapter of the day? Think of it like housekeeping knocking on the door or a quick room service call, except it’s you, checking in on yourself with no pressure to change anything. Just noticing. Just asking. Sometimes the smallest course correction is all it takes to feel a little more like yourself again.

3. Write Yourself a Postcard

Write yourself a postcard… not from a faraway place, but from right here. A little dispatch from the middle of your day. Maybe it’s something you noticed on your walk, something you cooked, or just a nice thought that passed through. “Wish you were here” becomes “Glad I was here.” It’s a bit like journaling, but lighter, prettier, and with a touch of play. A souvenir from an ordinary afternoon. Tuck it into your bag, leave it on your desk, or post it to yourself if you're feeling extra. Because the everyday deserves a memory too.

4. Curate a ‘Hotel Lobby’ Setup

Every good hotel lobby has that one table. A place of curation. Perfectly styled. Slightly excessive, usually stacked with oversized design books, a flickering candle, a floral or sculptural arrangement that’s doing the most. It’s there purely to set the tone, to create a mood. You don’t sit at it, you don’t touch anything on it, Try creating your own version at home, even if it’s just a tray on your coffee table, a small corner, or a windowsill moment. Stack a few books you actually want to flip through, light a candle you’ve been saving. A visual reminder that you're allowed beauty for beauty’s sake. A pause point. That your space can hold pause and beauty, no reason needed.

5. Invent a Destination Inspired Morning Ritual

Give your mornings a passport. Instead of waking up and defaulting to the same routine, pick a place. Sometimes the quickest way to reframe your day is to begin it somewhere else, not physically, but atmospherically. Not exactly recreating a holiday or planning a themed breakfast, but anchoring your morning in a mood. One that feels fresh and playful.

• Kyoto Tuesday: A clean start. Light incense, open a window for fresh air, slip on your softest slippers. Whisk a bowl of matcha slowly, quietly. Breakfast is something warm and simple, maybe rice with pickled vegetables or a miso soup. Let the start of the day feel still and almost ceremonial.

• Naples Friday: Start with a strong espresso, ideally in a small, no-fuss cup. Add a pastry, something flakey, sweet, or filled with cream. Put on a bold playlist, songs that makes you want to move around the kitchen. Today is loud in the best way.

• Copenhagen Wednesday: Warm lighting, cosy socks, and buttered rye toast with cheese or jam. Flip through a book or a bookmarked essay you’ve been meaning to read. Scroll through your favourite design blogs or flip through a magazine. Minimal effort, maximum hygge.

• Seoul Sunday: Breakfast is restorative and nourishing like bone broth or congee or something steamy from the night before, a little skincare moment, and your softest oversized T-shirt. Think reset, recharge, and let this morning be for grounding.

The idea isn’t to escape your life, but to soften the edges of your morning, just enough to make the day feel different before it really begins. Each morning can feel like a check-in at a new destination

5. At Home Wellness Menu

Inspired by my recent stay at a hotel that had the cutest in-room wellness offerings/ amenities. Red light masks, stretch kits, Pilates studios just an elevator ride away. It made me realise how nice it is to have some sort of guided map for feeling good. A visual menu of the things you already have access to: your skincare, your neighbourhood walk route, that one Pilates/ cycle class you keep meaning to try. Not a to-do list, but a moodboard meets timetable.

In-Room Services

Stretch Kit

A well-curated stretch kit is the perfect companion for unwinding after a busy day. With a high-quality yoga mat, stretch strap, and massage/ tennis ball, it helps release tension and improve flexibility in the comfort of your own home. The set elevates your stretch routine, encouraging mindful movement and promoting relaxation. It’s a simple yet luxurious way to take care of your body. Have your stretch kit in a corner drawer, so it always feels ready instead of a makeshift.

The Rooftop Class

Find your “studio”, whether you’re following a Pilates class or yoga flow in your living room rug or a patch of sun on the balcony, bring the studio atmosphere to where you are. Create a calm, inviting space with your favourite workout set, a yoga mat, and the perfect playlist. Or, if you’re craving variety, explore local Pilates studios or gyms nearby for a class that fits your schedule, making it easy to incorporate new, energising activities into your routine. Consider creating a map of the neighbourhood classes and crossing them off as you go. It adds an extra layer of motivation and provides a visual reminder of how much you’ve accomplished, while keeping things fresh and exciting.

Neighbourhood Gym

Step outside and redefine your fitness routine with a neighbourhood walk or jog. No need for a membership when you can create your own circuit in the local park or around your neighbourhood. Focus on mindful movement, with the option to add small stretches along the way. For those who prefer something more structured, discover local gyms and fitness studios, offering a wide range of classes that suit your needs. Treat yourself to a change of scenery and move your body in the way that feels best for you.

Bathhouse Experience

Create your own at-home spa day with a luxurious bathhouse experience. Set the mood with eucalyptus oils, soft lighting, and your favourite calming music. Transform your bathroom into a tranquil retreat as you soak in a warm bath, or enjoy a steamy shower infused with essential oils. Alternatively, you could again create a map of all the nearby bathhouses or saunas, so when you want to treat yourself, your wellness menu has exactly what you’re looking for. Where you can indulge in hot-stone saunas, steam rooms, and magnesium-rich baths.

Products

Mini Facial Bar
It’s time to bring out the skincare you save for “occasions”. Write down name cards for each product, it could be a pull one out of a hat situation. A rotation of creamy cleansers, gel masks.

The Rich Cream by Augustinus Bader
Icon status. Use sparingly and feel like you're in a Vogue Get Ready With Me.

Dr. Barbara Sturm Face Mask (or Glow Drops)
Expensive, yes. Worth it? Also yes.

Agent Nateur Holi(Glow) Eye Serum
Roll-on chic. Pop it in the fridge and feel like a jetlagged celeb reviving in a suite.

Costa Brazil Face Oil
Sustainably sourced, rainforest energy, smells divine. Like a tropical holiday in a bottle.

Frama Apothecary Body Wash
Minimalist packaging, earthy scent, turns your shower into a concept store.

Bastide Figue d’Été Artisanal Hand Cream
French, fig-scented, and too pretty not to leave out. For post-facial hand massage or your bag.

We don’t want to chase a new routine or a perfect version of your day, but instead noticing what’s already there.

I’m learning that the best way to romanticise your life is by nurturing a feeling of gratitude for yourself, for the time you have, for your space, for the way you show up each day.

Chat soon!

Nancy Xx